Originally posted by Detweiler 3.63
Every town has its crap areas, its places you can't safely walk after a certain time. It's something to do with human beings, cram them together in small places and those who can't afford to get out will bring the place down, and those who can afford to get out will bring their place down and drive away laughing.I've spent a lot of time in Paris and touch wood I've never had any problems there, I'd move there tomorrow if I could. Give me rural France any day though, that would be just about perfect for me.
ya, i'm not really worried. ppl can talk about crime and racism and poverty and blah blah blah in any city. we're not afraid. we may not have lived in paris, but we're both city kids.
and my parents both lived in france, as did my sisters... my family still has lotsa friends (english canadians too -- working and doing very well in paris) all over france. and my husband is half french and thus has family there as well.
i love cities, so paris being busy and hectic is music to my ears (not that i thought otherwise...). i love the chaos and insanity of urban life. i crave it. i need it. i'm a born n bred torontonian who gets panicky OUTSIDE of cities, believe it or not. anyhoo...
our goal is to live in the south eventually. we're starting out in paris cuz we have connections there and thought it'd be easier to find english jobs etc.
but we do wanna move south. my sister plans to buy a house in the south after a year, and says we can live in it (!!!!).
we also have friends and family in various areas of the south. my parents lived for years in provence. i'd LOVE to live in a city like aix-en-provence but i don't know if it's wise to start off there... we don't have tons of money to travel a lot first and will really need to start looking for work almost immediately on arrival.
what does everyone think? should we just risk it and move south/smaller town right away? i mean, we both speak french... but i kinda like the idea of starting out in paris... i'm a writer so living there holds a certain literary fascination for me (not to sound hokey or anything...).
we figure if things don't work out for us there, we can move to the UK... my husband is now applying for his british passport (he was born there), so he has EU citizenship (which makes it much easier for us [me too, as his wife] in france).
wow. i just wrote a shitload. sorry. but i appreciate all your thoughts/opinions. and nothing scares me! i've wanted to just "up and go" since i graduated university but kept getting stuck in relationship with ppl who weren't into that. i've finally met my match. we're very excited... for whatever may come our way. :D