C-Ro wrote:
Mr disco 99 wrote:
C-Ro wrote: In New York. I didn't hear the news I heard the crash.
I win the shared tragedy game!!!!!!!!
Congratulations.
Did you lose anything other than your internet connection? I'm sure it was scary actually being there and all, but it doesn't make you special. We were all shocked/afraid/angry that day and we're all still here.
I grew up in New York and feel lucky to have been several hundred miles away.
Yeah.. right... It doesn't make me special at all... In fact, I'm fucking saying the opposite.
but I don't see why people have to sit here and go through and try and place themselves at a point and time where they weren't. It's like all that "I am a Londoner" shit with regards to the 07/07/05. It's not strength and shared fucking tragedy. It's fucking "oh let's see how I can forge a connection when there's none there"
For example, this woman with whom I used to be friendly (until she said this--and it showed me what a smacked ass she was), was telling me about her experience on 09/11/01, saying how in Ottawa, they really felt the pain "that new yorkers were going through" because they were "one hour from the new york border"
That's fucking bullshit.
As for what I lost... I lost family the same as a fuck load of people from this area... does *THAT* make me win this fucking useless game now?
C-Ro, I understand you pain to some extent, as I run into people all the time that have asinine questions about me being in Iraq....like: "did you see anyone die?"; or "I saw on the news..." or "did you kill anyone?"...
At first I was really pissed off at these people....but overtime I realized that they really don't know what to say or ask. They really care, and really are concerned, and feel that they need to say something. It's like if your best friend's mother died...what do you say to her to make her feel that you care and are concerned...words can't explain, and yet you know you aren't feeling the same as she is about it (no matter how close you are to her mother).
I think this is what the "where were you" is all about...it gives people connection so that they can care, show that they care, and not forget...it would be much worse for people to ignore 9/11 anniversaries, wouldn't it?
JHC