Mine (of some fifteen years' standing) is mostly indifferent to them. Indeed, on the night I met her for the first time, one of the first questions I asked her was about what music she followed and she replied with the usual lame female answer of "this and that" which turned out to be the deeply offensive Eagles, Meat Loaf and worst still The Beautiful South!
I declared my obsession with all things Order at the same time and she at least knew who they were. I think she was not aware of how nuts I was/am about them, something which slowly became apparent.
For the most part I don't expect people I know to share my musical devotions. Rather like wanking, it's a solo pleasure. I was at a gig alone last night. Indeed, I went to see 24PP alone at a distant cinema late one night.
Ps my good friend Chris of the New Malden Order has brought his lady Tricia onside Order-wise but this can make it difficult when we all meet up for a few as NO tends to dominate the conversation!