OK my poor friend Rian, this is the way i look at it, having lived all my life here:
Greek girls actually DO LIKE northern boys, as we guys like northern girls - i guess everyboday wants what he/she doesnt see everyday. Why werent they talking to u then?? Because, most Greek girls are raised believing that they should always show that they are "ladies" or something. Even further: they may believe that the more they like someone, the more "distant" they should be at first. Too bad that naturally, very rarely there is a second time for them and they can end up complaining how men have all "gone gay" refusing to try to talk to them any more. Frankly, i cant feel any sympathy for their failure
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Of course, things are changing, slowly, but they do change, unlucky for me i dont get any younger now, nor i have immigrated on the right time - LOL. Next time u decide to come to Greece (or a friend of ures, since its too late for u as well
), after all these years, there is a chance u ll get lucky and find urelsef a much more reasonable greek gal - even if not, do try a second time. Oh, and remember, the smallest a place is, the largest is this "problem" - i would add that the further north in Greece u are, the better, which i m pretty sure it is true, but i wanna avoid an inter-greek fight if anyone from the south of Greece sees my post 