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What would you do?

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  • Never return to the current job 5 (29%)
  • Return to the current job after the three months is up 6 (35%)
  • Stay in Switzerland and become a tax exile 6 (35%)

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Christmas Eve will is supposedly my last working day with my current employers. After that I quit the UK and head off to Switzerland. But my Swiss job is only for three months, so after that I'll unemployed.

My current employers want me to go back after my stint in Switzerland, but the job and wages are shit. So do I never return to my current job and remain out of work (but keep my sanity?), go back to the current job after three months and hate it for the rest of my life, or do I become a tax exile in Switzerland?

Discuss.

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See how you enjoy living in Switzerland first. You don't have to commit to returning yet do you? Maybe once you're there and you've got settled you can look at extending your visa.

Wish i'd tried working abroad.

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if you go there will be trouberrrrl. if you stay it will be douberllll.

haha - LFC is looking for new stewards. loads of work available come february, especially at night..woo hoo.haha

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you better edit that one too.:nod:

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:nono: :nono: :nono: pay me!!

PLEASE DON'T GO KWS

Babe I love you so And I want you to know That I'm gonna miss your love The minute you walk out that door Please don't go Please don't go Babe I love you so I want you to know That I'm gonna miss your love The minute you walk out that door Please don't go Don't go Don't go away Please don't go Don't go Begging you to stay If you leave At least in my lifetime I've had one thing come true I was blessed To be loved By someone as wonderful as you Please don't go Don't go Don't go away Please don't go Don't go Begging you to stay Babe I love you so And I want you to know That I'm gonna miss your love The minute you walk out that door Please don't go Don't go Don't go away Hey hey hey I need your love Down on my knees Beg you please, please Please don't go Don't you hear me baby 'Cause you leave me now Oh, no, no don't go Please don't go I want you to know That I, I, I, love you so

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You're very romantic.

I hope you're flattered Miss Chapman!

:love2:

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john kershaw wrote: :nono: :nono: :nono: pay me!!

PLEASE DON'T GO KWS

Babe I love you so And I want you to know That I'm gonna miss your love The minute you walk out that door Please don't go Please don't go Babe I love you so I want you to know That I'm gonna miss your love The minute you walk out that door Please don't go Don't go Don't go away Please don't go Don't go Begging you to stay If you leave At least in my lifetime I've had one thing come true I was blessed To be loved By someone as wonderful as you Please don't go Don't go Don't go away Please don't go Don't go Begging you to stay Babe I love you so And I want you to know That I'm gonna miss your love The minute you walk out that door Please don't go Don't go Don't go away Hey hey hey I need your love Down on my knees Beg you please, please Please don't go Don't you hear me baby 'Cause you leave me now Oh, no, no don't go Please don't go I want you to know That I, I, I, love you so

John, your cheque is in the post! :lol:

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ha ha. just voted.

sadly only one vote, and that was me. haha

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cheers cousin Stee.

cya at the game Saturday. I'll take you in Pogue Mahones for a point-a-Harp.

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phew, for a minute I thought you had resurrected my drunken house fire thread of the same title.

Dont make a decision now..go with the flow.

Although I've heard Switzerland is shit. :laugh:

Bastards wont let you drive fast...... or drunk :nono:

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Sam

Enjoy the 3 months in Switz, then come back, temp for a bit to get some cash whilst looking for the ideal job.

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Sam, I highly recommend you should get back to the UK unless you tend to fly every time NO are playing. Easyjet, my arse :D

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NObabe wrote: Sam, I highly recommend you should get back to the UK unless you tend to fly every time NO are playing. Easyjet, my arse :D

i didn't know that had been added to their list of destinations.

Fuck, I'm doing it now, sorry :D

....you'll have mail shortly BTW

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:)

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Yeah I'd wait and see. You could really like Switzerland or miss the grey skies of home! If you come back to the UK though you should look for another job, if yours doesn't make you happy. Is it a contract type that you have to make a decision on now?

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Switzerland is like Burslem but with windows.

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Having a FULL TIME JOB is a LUXURY sometimes.Money is GREAT but then again FREEDOM is PRICELESS.Having done both CAREER then not worked for 3 YEARS,now been TEMPING for 3 years i can only say i MISS the MONEY!But i have LIVED more these last 6 years.But at the end of the day you will SOON know which is BEST.Good luck with whatever you choose though.My only concern these days is how to make a RELATIONSHIP work.But maybe i am just too MAD for it to ever WORK, being on THE CREST OF A SLUMP.I have had a good run of bad luck for years now.I think i am MOST happy when i am SAD. Regards Rocket Mick-shame his mum wanted a LAD :D

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and what's scary is, he talks like this in REAL FOOKING LIFE!!! :crazy:

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Switzerland... but where? - Zurich, Bern, Basel, Geneva, Montreux, Lucerne or Lausanne...?

Easy to nip across various borders. Fabulous railway system. French and German areas of the country have quite a different vibe. The lakes are beautiful, and you can always escape to the mountains...

Go.

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be crazy, stay in Switzerland, screw your current fookin job. Who knows what will happen there.

:thumb:

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Switzerland is the most expensive place of all time, is'nt it?I remember as a kid touring Europe with our Dad,staying there for one day before the old fella broke in to a cold sweat about the cost of everything... and we buggered off to Northern Italy, where all the wartime turncoats lived:shrug: Switzerland is beautiful.Mount Blanc that borders three countries is Magnifique,no question..I'd miss rubbish Redcar and its folk being a homebird myself,but you might love it.Do it on 6 month trial :thumb:

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"Better to regret something you did do than something you didn't do"

Although that's not always true so i don't know why i quoted it.

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I'd love to have a 3 months contract in another country.. gives you the opportunity to live like them for a while, and take the beat of that country.

Obviously, in the long run I think I'd miss my own country and familly...

Obviously a move like this is like asking an american from Boston to live in Denver for 3 months, it's not so much of a difference since you're already in Europe though.. obviously the language might be an issue (German or French part of Switzerland?)

But a nice experience...

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Well, it's making interesting reading so far :)

For those who were asking, I will be based in Winterthur (around 20 minutes outside of Zurich) in the German speaking part. I can speak German (although I haven't used it for a long time!) I'm sure it will all come back to me... :uhoh:

Anyhow, after the very shit day I have had at my soon-to-be old job, I am seriously thinking of never setting foot in the place ever again, ever :lol:

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If you fuck off to Swaziland, you'll still be posting here, right?

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BIGINOIL wrote: If you fuck off to Swaziland, you'll still be posting here, right?

Swaziland? Jesus, I thought they said Switzerland....:lol:

Of course, I fookin' will! :D

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take a chance love, live life , go for it , stay in switzerland!! who knows what doors will open:thumb:

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stay in switzerland. it might cost 5000 francs to buy a soda, but it looks exactly like it does in the pictures. i swear they mow the mountainsides in switzerland. beautiful.

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I'd say return to your current job afterwards while looking for a new one

or, if you can, see if u can decide after u go :shrug:

~Victoria

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Switzerland is great, gotta love what those Knights Templar did with the place.

Doesn't it have a mandatory, month-a-year maritime military conscription system though, ROK style? I doubt a foreign worker would be obligated to participate, but still a spooky thought (Though my cousin who's in the German military says all they do in Switz. is dress up and play army in the hills every year since they never take aggression or receive it :shrug: )

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you must be good if they want you to come back.so go swiss and then you'll get something to temt you back. you'll get a job easy if come back,its not 1979 hun to me your christine the strawberry girl.good luck whatever

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You should go, Sam. The experience would be cool. I've been reading there's a few distilleries in Switzerland about to begin producing Absinthe from the original recipe. *hint* I promise to send you some recently acquired Finn Brothers bootlegs from their Aussie gigs. You can always fall back and return to your current job if needed. :)

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FAC51 wrote:

I promise to send you some recently acquired Finn Brothers bootlegs from their Aussie gigs.

Steve, you star! :D

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fookin ell Sam, just found myself in potentially similar situation.

I just started a permanent job a month ago after 6 years of contract work, but just got a call from a recruitment agency in Zurich asking if I was interested in applying for a 6 month contract out there.

My head is fooked.

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Barney Army wrote: fookin ell Sam, just found myself in potentially similar situation.

I just started a permanent job a month ago after 6 years of contract work, but just got a call from a recruitment agency in Zurich asking if I was interested in applying for a 6 month contract out there.

My head is fooked.

What are you going to do????

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well, first of all I need to know how much dosh they are offerering :laugh:

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5 votes to Stay In Switzerland, top option at the moment, think Samantha, think, hehehehe

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arek p. wrote: 5 votes to Stay In Switzerland, top option at the moment, think Samantha, think, hehehehe

Do you think everyone is trying to tell me something? :lol:

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Barney Army wrote: well, first of all I need to know how much dosh they are offerering :laugh:

Yeah, definitely check that out before you make any decision! :lol:

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Samantha Chapman wrote:

arek p. wrote: 5 votes to Stay In Switzerland, top option at the moment, think Samantha, think, hehehehe

Do you think everyone is trying to tell me something? :lol:

Well we are just hoping there are no PC's in SWITZERLAND.:hat:

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FAC51 wrote: You should go, Sam. The experience would be cool. I've been reading there's a few distilleries in Switzerland about to begin producing Absinthe from the original recipe. *hint* I promise to send you some recently acquired Finn Brothers bootlegs from their Aussie gigs. You can always fall back and return to your current job if needed. :)

friend of mine would be very interestd in those...

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Rocket Mick wrote:

Samantha Chapman wrote:

arek p. wrote: 5 votes to Stay In Switzerland, top option at the moment, think Samantha, think, hehehehe

Do you think everyone is trying to tell me something? :lol:

Well we are just hoping there are no PC's in SWITZERLAND.:hat:

Sorry to disappoint you, but my Mac Powerbook is going with me, so don't think you are getting rid of me that easily!!! :lol:

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hibster wrote:

FAC51 wrote: You should go, Sam. The experience would be cool. I've been reading there's a few distilleries in Switzerland about to begin producing Absinthe from the original recipe. *hint* I promise to send you some recently acquired Finn Brothers bootlegs from their Aussie gigs. You can always fall back and return to your current job if needed. :)

friend of mine would be very interestd in those...

What - the Absinthe or the Finn brothers bootlegs? (Or both?) If it's the Finn brothers, I'll let you know what they are (when I get them!)

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Remember I have friends in the passport service Chapman, you were going nowhere until we had adequate assurance of your connectivivty :D

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Take CampBELL too......... THE HILLS ARE ALIVE WITH THE SOUND OF MORE SHIT:hat:

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Rocket Mick wrote: Take CampBELL too......... THE HILLS ARE ALIVE WITH THE SOUND OF MORE SHIT:hat:

:rofl:

(Steve, you haven't got a passport yet, have you?)

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Samantha Chapman wrote:

hibster wrote:

FAC51 wrote: You should go, Sam. The experience would be cool. I've been reading there's a few distilleries in Switzerland about to begin producing Absinthe from the original recipe. *hint* I promise to send you some recently acquired Finn Brothers bootlegs from their Aussie gigs. You can always fall back and return to your current job if needed. :)

friend of mine would be very interestd in those...

What - the Absinthe or the Finn brothers bootlegs? (Or both?) If it's the Finn brothers, I'll let you know what they are (when I get them!)

the finn bros. i'm quite intersted by the absinthe myself mind...

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Sam, When you going? I lived and worked in New York for 4 months back in 1997. It's hard to make any decisions before you leave as so much can happen and change. Go, enjoy yourself and you'll know when the time is right.

You'll always be part of Barney's Angels, wherever you may be! Glad you'll still be connected via the net. Just means you'll have to dig deep to fly back for all the NO gigs.

I'm sure young Steve said somewhere he never had a Passport- funny that, considering he has all these connections in the passport office:lol:

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madam, such connections as I have would of course partake in no fraudulent action on my behalf :) Actually, technically I still work for their info line myself, but aint beein there in oooooo oh dear 18months nearly...how fuckin bored am I with doing sod all...very :)

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Steve Campbell wrote: madam, such connections as I have would of course partake in no fraudulent action on my behalf :) Actually, technically I still work for their info line myself, but aint beein there in oooooo oh dear 18months nearly...how fuckin bored am I with doing sod all...very :)

What would you like to do? That's career wise, Steve

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Bonzette wrote:

Steve Campbell wrote: madam, such connections as I have would of course partake in no fraudulent action on my behalf :) Actually, technically I still work for their info line myself, but aint beein there in oooooo oh dear 18months nearly...how fuckin bored am I with doing sod all...very :)

What would you like to do? That's career wise, Steve

right now i'd settle for being back skivving in the call centre. Career wise, I sometimes feel I've had most of that already. Lived the rock and roll dream and was good at most of it except the schmoozing and industry crap, I really can't abide normal folks getting involved in bringing musicians down :) Then made lots of e heads happy on a strictly amusement and studio funding basis for a while. What's left to do? I'm still waiting on Frank Williams ringing me about that 2nd seat.

Seriously though I'd love a nice job behind a desk. a 72 channel SSL desk, but still a desk.

and you're dream options, assuming carryin inflatable guitars isn't a vocation for you (and notwistanding little'uns)

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Rocket Mick wrote:

Samantha Chapman wrote:

arek p. wrote: 5 votes to Stay In Switzerland, top option at the moment, think Samantha, think, hehehehe

Do you think everyone is trying to tell me something? :lol:

Well we are just hoping there are no PC's in SWITZERLAND.:hat:

thats right, quality:abovelol: :laugh:

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Steve Campbell wrote:

Bonzette wrote:

Steve Campbell wrote: madam, such connections as I have would of course partake in no fraudulent action on my behalf :) Actually, technically I still work for their info line myself, but aint beein there in oooooo oh dear 18months nearly...how fuckin bored am I with doing sod all...very :)

What would you like to do? That's career wise, Steve

right now i'd settle for being back skivving in the call centre. Career wise, I sometimes feel I've had most of that already. Lived the rock and roll dream and was good at most of it except the schmoozing and industry crap, I really can't abide normal folks getting involved in bringing musicians down :) Then made lots of e heads happy on a strictly amusement and studio funding basis for a while. What's left to do? I'm still waiting on Frank Williams ringing me about that 2nd seat.

Seriously though I'd love a nice job behind a desk. a 72 channel SSL desk, but still a desk.

and you're dream options, assuming carryin inflatable guitars isn't a vocation for you (and notwistanding little'uns)

I'd like to be a footballers wife. I'd be so good at it. Champagne, platinum cards, shopping, flying all of my mates on NOOL around the world VIP, to all the gigs NO perform. Get my nails done, plastic surgery, face transplant is the thing these days??? Could i be that vain??? seeing as i love my footy, getting to see footy for free would be the best result. Having the money would be nice also.

Seriously, i'd like my own business. I have a few ideas and reckon eventually it will happen. I have a good business head-fuck knows where that came from? I'm just about to buy some DJ decks again, after 10 years absence from DJing. Can't remember much so will practice for a year and see what happens. My aim is to have one massive 30th birthday party and be able to DJ for it. In part anyway.

You seem no clearer on your career choice. Do you really want to sit behind a desk?

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Bonzette wrote: I'm just about to buy some DJ decks again, after 10 years absence from DJing. Can't remember much so will practice for a year and see what happens. My aim is to have one massive 30th birthday party and be able to DJ for it. In part anyway.

SIGN THIS WOMAN UP FOR NOOL DAY!!!!!!!! She and Monty can have a DJ spin off (or whatever DJ's do) :confused2:

(Yes, I was shouting. Sorry!)

This is far more interesting than whether I become a tax exile in Switzerland or not...

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Hope yer back clears up ,Samantha.You believe in Chiropractors?.I've gone to em a few times.But the last time i came to the conclusiom a good old laugh sorted the prob out.Probably was just tension or something tightening the old spine up.After i had shelled out a few bob ,too.No wonder they are all driving about in expensive motors.Cunts.

Talking shit on here is a better way to cure the problem.Better if you've got a laptop though.Just lie on the bed.Sitting at the desk isn't a good idea.

Like yer new avatar.You got the 'Notebook' thing?.HMV reckon they posted mine on Monday so i'm hoping to see it this week.Bar Xmas post.

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Samantha Chapman wrote:

Barney Army wrote: well, first of all I need to know how much dosh they are offerering :laugh:

Yeah, definitely check that out before you make any decision! :lol:

dosh good, so I've told 'em to stick my CV in. Nothing ventured nothing gained etc etc...

Might come to nothing but if it does I reckon I'll go for it.

Zurich Order :)

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Johnny wrote: Hope yer back clears up ,Samantha.You believe in Chiropractors?.I've gone to em a few times.But the last time i came to the conclusiom a good old laugh sorted the prob out.Probably was just tension or something tightening the old spine up.After i had shelled out a few bob ,too.No wonder they are all driving about in expensive motors.Cunts.

Talking shit on here is a better way to cure the problem.Better if you've got a laptop though.Just lie on the bed.Sitting at the desk isn't a good idea.

Like yer new avatar.You got the 'Notebook' thing?.HMV reckon they posted mine on Monday so i'm hoping to see it this week.Bar Xmas post.

Chiropractors? Seriously thinking about it actually...

Yeah, posting crap on here has taken my mind off it (and I've got a Powerbook, so I am lying on my bed)

I haven't got the Kraftwerk Notebook (I'm hoping Santa might turn up with it!). I hope it eventually turns up for you because it has had so many delays, hasn't it?

Been listening to a load of Kraftwerk lately, hence the avatar. Respect :bow:

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Samantha Chapman wrote:

Johnny wrote: Hope yer back clears up ,Samantha.You believe in Chiropractors?.I've gone to em a few times.But the last time i came to the conclusiom a good old laugh sorted the prob out.Probably was just tension or something tightening the old spine up.After i had shelled out a few bob ,too.No wonder they are all driving about in expensive motors.Cunts.

Talking shit on here is a better way to cure the problem.Better if you've got a laptop though.Just lie on the bed.Sitting at the desk isn't a good idea.

Like yer new avatar.You got the 'Notebook' thing?.HMV reckon they posted mine on Monday so i'm hoping to see it this week.Bar Xmas post.

Chiropractors? Seriously thinking about it actually...

Yeah, posting crap on here has taken my mind off it (and I've got a Powerbook, so I am lying on my bed)

I haven't got the Kraftwerk Notebook (I'm hoping Santa might turn up with it!). I hope it eventually turns up for you because it has had so many delays, hasn't it?

Been listening to a load of Kraftwerk lately, hence the avatar. Respect :bow:

DO NOT go to Chiropractors! Do more damage than good........ listen to me now; I know about these things; men promising you wonders for money - it just never happens Sam, and you come away empty handed and in pain......same old story!:D

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Barney Army wrote:

Samantha Chapman wrote:

Barney Army wrote: well, first of all I need to know how much dosh they are offerering :laugh:

Yeah, definitely check that out before you make any decision! :lol:

dosh good, so I've told 'em to stick my CV in. Nothing ventured nothing gained etc etc...

Might come to nothing but if it does I reckon I'll go for it.

Zurich Order :)

Nick, go for it. Like you said, nothing ventured...I mean my little adventure might not work out but at least I gave it a go :D

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COULD one of you two take CLAYHEAD with you.And leave him there!

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