Sheddy Teringham wrote:
NOOLigan wrote: i've just realised that i am not nice, but random.
i think i could class myself as that ,also,
yeh i let bygones be bygones and don't bitch about it.
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No More Mr. Nice Guy (because let's face it you weren't that nice to begin with)
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mil wrote: Its a very complicated situation.
All of my female friends, especially the prettiest ones, always, ALWAYS, when put in a room with about 50 men, WITHOUT FAIL pick the ugliest, worst one who always treats them badly and cheats on them. All the nice ones get ignored. At one time or another they have all had a nice guy for a boyfriends and then my friends cheat on them I Don't get it, its awful, so I'm staying out of the whole ugly teenage dating scene. I'm sick of seeing my friends treated so badly, but THEY are the ones making bad choices - so its a catch 22 I guess.
Exactly right. Every guy-- jerk and "nice guy"-- knows this. And you know what causes women to finally, finally, finally stop trying to turn jerks into "nice guys"? Experience.
Which ususally coincides with losing their looks. 
Taboo # 7 wrote: When I was reading that piece (really, really, really, really long), I was wondering if I was a "nice guy" or "Nice Guy" now. Because I've been the "Nice Guy" before (the jerk underneath that I think all guys have would sometimes come out), and I'd like to think I grew out of that at some point.
Then I start making Cozzie uncomfortable with all my groping, and it's all downhill
C.M doesn't take this guy:
At one end, are the guys who are just pure and simple good guys, decent people, humanly flawed perhaps but nonetheless likable *and* lovable, caring and smart, who have a lot to offer. Ironically, these guys often do not realize just how wonderful they are and how much they are valued by the people around them, and sometimes they even suffer crippling shyness/low self-esteem. I am fortunate to know, and have known, and to be related to, an unusually high number of guys towards this end of the spectrum.
into account. So let's take this genuinely nice guy (lower case) who is a bit shy and awkawrd with women. Let's call him, oh, I don't know, let's just call him "Tabbsy." 
So "Tabbsy" thinks he'd like to get to know some girl he meets, but he doesn't know what to do, so he gets to know her first. Then he becomes friends with her. Then he really, really, really starts to like her, and by the time he's ready to ask her out, he's got a huge, huge crush on her (let's not call it "love."). Which, of course, is the wrong approach, because he's already gone before he's even asked her out.
Now I axe you, is that a guy who's devious, or a guy who's shy and unsure of himself?
Taboo # 7 wrote: When I was reading that piece (really, really, really, really long), I was wondering if I was a "nice guy" or "Nice Guy" now. Because I've been the "Nice Guy" before (the jerk underneath that I think all guys have would sometimes come out), and I'd like to think I grew out of that at some point.
Then I start making Cozzie uncomfortable with all my groping, and it's all downhill
Tabbsy, have you been drinking too much? 
I don't like your final statement. 
NOOLigan wrote:
Server Error in "/" Application wrote: Forget about "nice guys" and "bad guys". Women want "Chuck Norris guy"...
so women like really crap actors.
But he's busy filming The Sooty and Sweep show.
A veritable outpour of introspective self-analyses and bollox on this thread..
And Cambo,you will probably marry that girl you speak of,eventually..after she has a couple of failed marriages or summut,it could all turnout right, and you'll be pensioners on Brighton pier eating Ice-cream and chatting New Order.
Boatraceface wrote:
NOOLigan wrote:
Server Error in "/" Application wrote: Forget about "nice guys" and "bad guys". Women want "Chuck Norris guy"...
so women like really crap actors.
But he's busy filming The Sooty and Sweep show.
A veritable outpour of introspective self-analyses and bollox on this thread..
And Cambo,you will probably marry that girl you speak of,eventually..after she has a couple of failed marriages or summut,it could all turnout right, and you'll be pensioners on Brighton pier eating Ice-cream and chatting New Order.
She's not a believer...and I've already got that EXACT arrangement pre agreed with another lady...if no other fucker ever wants us....we'll grow old disgracefully together.
[magenta]cozmonite61[/magenta] wrote:
Taboo # 7 wrote: When I was reading that piece (really, really, really, really long), I was wondering if I was a "nice guy" or "Nice Guy" now. Because I've been the "Nice Guy" before (the jerk underneath that I think all guys have would sometimes come out), and I'd like to think I grew out of that at some point.
Then I start making Cozzie uncomfortable with all my groping, and it's all downhill
Tabbsy, have you been drinking too much?
See the part where "Nice Guy" in caps makes sexual jokes...I'm being sarcastic 
You can't grope over the internet 
Update: On the way to the airport, one of the Nice Guys-- upper case-- ChrissMari talks about sat next to me on the train and started flirting with a way-too-young-for-him young woman. As in *flirt flirt* "Ha ha, I'm just kidding," *flirt flirt* "Just kidding. Made you smile. Ha ha. Just kidding."
God what a creepshow.
Comrade Shampanyov, Last of the Red Hot Gentlemen wrote: Update: On the way to the airport, one of the Nice Guys-- upper case-- ChrissMari talks about sat next to me on the train and started flirting with a way-too-young-for-him young woman. As in *flirt flirt* "Ha ha, I'm just kidding," *flirt flirt* "Just kidding. Made you smile. Ha ha. Just kidding."
God what a creepshow.
aren't most women too young for you? :D sorry, but you left yourself wide open for this one.
NOOLigan wrote:
Comrade Shampanyov, Last of the Red Hot Gentlemen wrote: Update: On the way to the airport, one of the Nice Guys-- upper case-- ChrissMari talks about sat next to me on the train and started flirting with a way-too-young-for-him young woman. As in *flirt flirt* "Ha ha, I'm just kidding," *flirt flirt* "Just kidding. Made you smile. Ha ha. Just kidding."
God what a creepshow.
aren't most women too young for you? :D sorry, but you left yourself wide open for this one.
Yeah, I should've tried that... legs wide open. That would've got her attention.
Nah, this was some other guy, and he was doing his Nice Guy flirting routine (Made you smile. Ha ha, just kidding. Just like talking with a cute girl. Made you smile. You know you're cute. Don't stop smiling.) A major, major, creep.
Comrade Shampanyov, Last of the Red Hot Gentlemen wrote:
NOOLigan wrote:
Comrade Shampanyov, Last of the Red Hot Gentlemen wrote: Update: On the way to the airport, one of the Nice Guys-- upper case-- ChrissMari talks about sat next to me on the train and started flirting with a way-too-young-for-him young woman. As in *flirt flirt* "Ha ha, I'm just kidding," *flirt flirt* "Just kidding. Made you smile. Ha ha. Just kidding."
God what a creepshow.
aren't most women too young for you? :D sorry, but you left yourself wide open for this one.
Yeah, I should've tried that... legs wide open. That would've got her attention.
Nah, this was some other guy, and he was doing his Nice Guy flirting routine (Made you smile. Ha ha, just kidding. Just like talking with a cute girl. Made you smile. You know you're cute. Don't stop smiling.) A major, major, creep.
ok, i believe that i wasn't you then. you would just engage her on a conversation of what she thinks of the war in iraq right?
NOOLigan wrote:
Comrade Shampanyov, Last of the Red Hot Gentlemen wrote:
NOOLigan wrote:
Comrade Shampanyov, Last of the Red Hot Gentlemen wrote: Update: On the way to the airport, one of the Nice Guys-- upper case-- ChrissMari talks about sat next to me on the train and started flirting with a way-too-young-for-him young woman. As in *flirt flirt* "Ha ha, I'm just kidding," *flirt flirt* "Just kidding. Made you smile. Ha ha. Just kidding."
God what a creepshow.
aren't most women too young for you? :D sorry, but you left yourself wide open for this one.
Yeah, I should've tried that... legs wide open. That would've got her attention.
Nah, this was some other guy, and he was doing his Nice Guy flirting routine (Made you smile. Ha ha, just kidding. Just like talking with a cute girl. Made you smile. You know you're cute. Don't stop smiling.) A major, major, creep.
ok, i believe that i wasn't you then. you would just engage her on a conversation of what she thinks of the bulge in your jeans, right?
Yep.
Comrade Shampanyov, Last of the Red Hot Gentlemen wrote:
NOOLigan wrote:
Comrade Shampanyov, Last of the Red Hot Gentlemen wrote:
NOOLigan wrote:
Comrade Shampanyov, Last of the Red Hot Gentlemen wrote: Update: On the way to the airport, one of the Nice Guys-- upper case-- ChrissMari talks about sat next to me on the train and started flirting with a way-too-young-for-him young woman. As in *flirt flirt* "Ha ha, I'm just kidding," *flirt flirt* "Just kidding. Made you smile. Ha ha. Just kidding."
God what a creepshow.
aren't most women too young for you? :D sorry, but you left yourself wide open for this one.
Yeah, I should've tried that... legs wide open. That would've got her attention.
Nah, this was some other guy, and he was doing his Nice Guy flirting routine (Made you smile. Ha ha, just kidding. Just like talking with a cute girl. Made you smile. You know you're cute. Don't stop smiling.) A major, major, creep.
ok, i believe that i wasn't you then. you would just engage her on a conversation of what she thinks of the bulge in your jeans, right?
Yep.
that's what was originally going to write. 
NOOLigan wrote: ah us men. we have a one track mind. no point shirking away from it like a nice guy.
Nope. Nice guys-- who needs 'em?
