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So, who's willing and able? :D

To any NOOLers happily settled with partners or spouses or whatever..... when and where did you first get to lock horns and what actually took place that meant that first meeting was ultimately fated? It's time to share it with the rest of us.....if you want to. :lol:

Solitary bedsit rug-chewers need not apply.... ;) :spit: :love2:

I first met Lorraine back in 1993 when I was 20. She was on a psychology course at Manchester Uni back then and she was one of about seven students we used to meet up with for drinks and chat afterwards, traipsing around some of the pubs in the area. (Lass O' Gowrie, Abercrombie, O'Sheas, Peveril Of The Peak, etc). I lived in Bolton at the time and would never go out locally but always travel into Manchester for my social meets. I started taking a liking to her cos she had this ace top with a huge smiley orange on it. She was also a massive Smiths fan which amused me no end cos when I told her I was a Bunnymen obsessive, she laughed and said they were the worst band in the world, how Ian McCulloch was such an egotist and how Mozza pissed all over him as a singer and songwriter.

I then reminded her about the time in the mid-80s when both singers would often be regarded as rivals - indeed Smash Hits once did an article on who was the lippiest gobshite of all - Moz vs Mac - that was funny! She had no answer to that. I then tried to woo her by telling her that my only claim to fame to date was getting photographed with Frank Sidebottom at gig a couple of years ago. She had no answer to that either, but she might have spat an ice cube back at me. I can't remember for sure though, I was a bit pissed that evening. :lol:

Anyway - we kept meeting up for months afterwards whilst we were still studying. I was doing an art history course at Bolton Institute back then, having lived in Morecambe for a couple of years before, but we became really good friends and kept seeing each other loads until 1997 when we got engaged and moved to the other side of Manchester - first to Sale then, after we got married, to Tytherington, just outside Macclesfield. A couple of years ago we moved again, to Bollington. Lorraine actually spent a while working evening shifts on the Samaritans phonelines - but went under the assumed name Jeanette (some volunteers do this to effectively become just ears at the other end of the line) - whilst I eventually found part time work as an art teacher at the local college.

We don't have any kids though - but our two labradors Checkers and Marbles more than make up for that! :)

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thanks for reminding me I ain't got an other half...

rat bastard!

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I met Mrs SHEDi at teacher training college... Through mutual friends, the usual story...

SHEDi xxx

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So you admitted to reading Smash Hits and you still pulled!! :crazy:

I guess there's hope for us all. :lol:

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Asked her,all romantic like with a rose between my teeth.... if she could cook, fuck, and do the washing up! and here we are,head over heels :love2: 2 out of 3 aint bad...Cookings a bit ropey!:evil4:

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I met Sara at a party 15 years ago. I had some other girls after me at that party, but I felt for Sara. I had just split up with my girlfriend, mother to my daugther Amanda, and was in a bad mood. I hoped for a one night stand, but Sara refused. She was together with another bloke.

2 weeks later, she called me. She had broked up with her old boyfriend, and now she wanted some more from me....

It took 3 years before we moved together though. We saw each other in periods. I needed some time to forget my ex, and to feel ready. Sara waited, and it all went out just fine. We are now married.

First time I met my mother inlaw was not a very good experience. Sara was pregnant. On that evning, her mother had a big party, turning 50. I had been to another party that evning. Got my self really drunk, and took a cab to her mothers party at 11:30PM. Asked her mother for a dance, when I hardly could stand up straight. Sara talked me out of it, and gave me a glass of water.... :spit:

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I met Farah online, on a website called AsianEuro, where westerners can meet Asians. After a few months of emailing every day, I finally took the plunge and flew to Bangladesh. I spent a week there with her & her parents. After I got back, we continued to email every day, and we started the paperwork to bring her here on a fiancee visa. She came here last April, and with a fiancee visa you only have 90 days to get married or send her ass back! So, we got married a couple of months after she moved here. I was nervous about marrying someone I had only been with face to face for a couple of months, but it has worked out great! As to boatraceface's 3 criteria, she's not much of a housecleaner, but 2 out of 3 ain't bad.

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Rian wrote: First time I met my mother inlaw was not a very good experience. Sara was pregnant. On that evning, her mother had a big party, turning 50. I had been to another party that evning. Got my self really drunk, and took a cab to her mothers party at 11:30PM. Asked her mother for a dance, when I hardly could stand up straight. Sara talked me out of it, and gave me a glass of water.... :spit:

very classy

I guess it all worked out in the end then

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pen pal when i did 6 years bird. :laugh:

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J.A.K wrote: pen pal when i did 6 years bird. :laugh:

hahahaha

what were you in for?

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..pissed!!!! i apologised for my drunk mate saying rude things to her mate . sat down next to her on a bench and got chatting. but her mate did have nice tits!!!!

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cuddles wrote: but her mate did have nice tits!!!!

aaahh...usually a great USP for any bird.

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ChrissMari wrote:

J.A.K wrote: pen pal when i did 6 years bird. :laugh:

hahahaha

what were you in for?

I got 6 years for something i didn't do.

:cry:

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J.A.K wrote:

ChrissMari wrote:

J.A.K wrote: pen pal when i did 6 years bird. :laugh:

hahahaha

what were you in for?

I got 6 years for something i didn't do.

:cry:

Isn't that your tribe's most common excuse?

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i never got to the get-away car fast enough.

:laugh:

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J.A.K wrote:

6 years for something i didn't do.

Brake at the school crossing?

CM, that's MY tribe yer thinkin of.

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J.A.K wrote: i never got to the get-away car fast enough.

:laugh:

Why? Did they drop loads of marbles onto the pavement to hamper you or summat? ;) :laugh:

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ChrissMari wrote:

Rian wrote: First time I met my mother inlaw was not a very good experience. Sara was pregnant. On that evning, her mother had a big party, turning 50. I had been to another party that evning. Got my self really drunk, and took a cab to her mothers party at 11:30PM. Asked her mother for a dance, when I hardly could stand up straight. Sara talked me out of it, and gave me a glass of water.... :spit:

very classy

I guess it all worked out in the end then

Yep, it did. Not very fond of her though. She can be a real pain in the ass sometimes.... Not Sara, her mother....

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Rian wrote:

ChrissMari wrote:

Rian wrote: First time I met my mother inlaw was not a very good experience. Sara was pregnant. On that evning, her mother had a big party, turning 50. I had been to another party that evning. Got my self really drunk, and took a cab to her mothers party at 11:30PM. Asked her mother for a dance, when I hardly could stand up straight. Sara talked me out of it, and gave me a glass of water.... :spit:

very classy

I guess it all worked out in the end then

Yep, it did. Not very fond of her though. She can be a real pain in the ass sometimes.... Not Sara, her mother....

Mothers in Law have always been my downfall

I always wind up with guys whose moms are too overprotective

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I am lucky. My mother in law is 10,000 miles away in Bangladesh. :laugh:

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So, how did you meet up with your other halfs then?

I promise you lot will be the first to know if I ever do.

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Monsieur Round & Round wrote: Wife #1: a co-worker of mine Wife #2: a co-worker of mine

Do I sense a pattern here?

2 wives?? Where the heck do you work?

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She was one of my students. And my moral, professional and ethical integrity are all firmly intact, ta very much!

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Met Karen on her first day at our workplace. Two weeks later I clubbed her over the head and dragged her off to monkeyworld, and the rest is history! Living together after 4 months, engaged after 6 months, married after 13 months. Several NOOLers came to the wedding :beer:

Just had our third anniversary, and I can honestly say I have never been happier in my entire life!

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oldmonkey wrote: Met Karen on her first day at our workplace. Two weeks later I clubbed her over the head and dragged her off to monkeyworld, and the rest is history! Living together after 4 months, engaged after 6 months, married after 13 months. Several NOOLers came to the wedding :beer:

Just had our third anniversary, and I can honestly say I have never been happier in my entire life!

:thumb: Nice one squire! Great to hear that things are going well - and belated best wishes to you both on your 3rd anny too! :)

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Shellshocker wrote:

Monsieur Round & Round wrote: Wife #1: a co-worker of mine Wife #2: a co-worker of mine

Do I sense a pattern here?

2 wives?? Where the heck do you work?

:laugh: I wasn't married to them at the same time and I didn't met them at the same workplace!

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Monsieur Round & Round wrote:

Shellshocker wrote:

Monsieur Round & Round wrote: Wife #1: a co-worker of mine Wife #2: a co-worker of mine

Do I sense a pattern here?

2 wives?? Where the heck do you work?

:laugh: I wasn't married to them at the same time and I didn't met them at the same workplace!

Ok, I confess...

I work at Victoria's Secret

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Susana and I met at my 31st B'Day Party through mutual friends, we hit it off, moved in together a little over a year ago and all is well

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oldmonkey wrote: Met Karen on her first day at our workplace. Two weeks later I clubbed her over the head and dragged her off to monkeyworld, and the rest is history! Living together after 4 months, engaged after 6 months, married after 13 months. Several NOOLers came to the wedding :beer:

Just had our third anniversary, and I can honestly say I have never been happier in my entire life!

Congrats. That's always great to hear. I can say the same though I've only been maried 11 months.

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