This girl i tried to ask out......

said she feels like a prostitute, and to not take anything personally whatever she said

first of all i have been chatting to this girl via the email medium, she said that was born in england, her parents emmigrated to aussie, she returned to manchester and starts posting on website...........

i reply to it and get to know her well, now the problem is, she starts making excuses like ...she has had a hard time with a previous relationship etc, you know all the crud excuses, blah blah blah, so ok, now i ask her if i could ask her out, ok she said, but then starts saying oh i got things happening with mates of mine

so, i said well ok then leave it for another day. cue new years day, i email to see what she is doing on new years day, she said nothing really, so i asked her if she would like to come and see the parade.....a very quick response from this is that now she has something planned for two days during the new years.....so i jokingly added that i would buy her something from the sales.........another email jokingly referred to the fact that my mate sent her the email.

then she said "why are you treating me like a whore?" to my utter amazement, a whore? whats a whore? someone who sells her body for money, there was no mention of sex in the convo and she is feeling like a whore

Maybe she thought you were thinking.........

"she's not gonna put out, I'll bribe her with designer goodies"

No woman wants a man to think that, DO it yes, but not think it.

The Doctor's assessment........

She's damaged good mate, avoid!

And that's from someone who spent nearly his whole life desperate, only to meet a girl who has no intention of shagging me, but no intention of getting rid of me for someone she can shag. At the end of the day, shaggin's just premium wanking, what's important is the company of another human being you love and trust. This chick of yours is likely to make floppsy stew at the drop of a hat by the sounds of her.

suffice to say, i havent contacted her or even wanted contact her after that, i just thought ewww, dont like the sound of that

Whores?

Check this site Rocket Mick sent me:-

www.punternet.com

that sounds dodgy site to go to, and no she was feeling like a whore for me wanting to buy her something

Doctor? wrote:

The Doctor's assessment........ She's damaged good mate, avoid!

I'd just like to add: like a leprosy victim with the plague! Sounds like one major fuck up... You'd be better off with a blow up friend Digi.

MIMX wrote:

Doctor? wrote:

The Doctor's assessment........ She's damaged good mate, avoid!

I'd just like to add: like a leprosy victim with the plague! Sounds like one major fuck up... You'd be better off with a blow up friend Digi.

can you interact with them in conversational way?

...turned out to be a licker.

BUNNYBOILER!!!!!

old lead foot wrote: BUNNYBOILER!!!!!

tell me about it

This lass isnt from Croydon is she?

I have no problem with people offering to buy me things just no one ever does!!!

Just joking. Think you best move on . . . someone making bad excuses and trying to blame you for it possibly.

People trying to find each other on the net have something to hide and/or are damaged goods.... get off the 'puter for a few minutes and meet one face to face in the blood and flesh mate.

Rosie wrote: I have no problem with people offering to buy me things just no one ever does!!!

Just joking. Think you best move on . . . someone making bad excuses and trying to blame you for it possibly.

funny, her name was rosie, yea, i am forgetting about her, i dont wanna date a girl like her, just imagine the hell i would get out of her, for a silly little thing like that, she thinks im treating her like a hoe,

to the previous post above you, no she wasnt from croydon, its a bit of a long story from her, born in the uk, parents emmigrated to aussie. back to manchester, then she travelled to london with mates, first to hammersmith, now at ealing, well thats all i can say, i cant prove she is there, plus i dont wanna prove it

EdelBrock wrote: People trying to find each other on the net have something to hide and/or are damaged goods.... get off the 'puter for a few minutes and meet one face to face in the blood and flesh mate.

I'm in total agreement, this is no substitute for interacting with flesh and blood people.

It's too easy to be anything/anyone you want to be on this.

MIMX wrote:

EdelBrock wrote: People trying to find each other on the net have something to hide and/or are damaged goods.... get off the 'puter for a few minutes and meet one face to face in the blood and flesh mate.

I'm in total agreement, this is no substitute for interacting with flesh and blood people.

It's too easy to be anything/anyone you want to be on this.

i agree, but i got a crap job, that allows for no social interaction with ladies or the absolute minimum, no i am not scared of them or some kinda pervy person, its just the job unfortunately

DigiDiz wrote:

MIMX wrote:

EdelBrock wrote: People trying to find each other on the net have something to hide and/or are damaged goods.... get off the 'puter for a few minutes and meet one face to face in the blood and flesh mate.

I'm in total agreement, this is no substitute for interacting with flesh and blood people.

It's too easy to be anything/anyone you want to be on this.

i agree, but i got a crap job, that allows for no social interaction with ladies or the absolute minimum, no i am not scared of them or some kinda pervy person, its just the job unfortunately

I wasn't suggesting anything mate, was just shocked at being in total agreement with Edel.

I know how hard it can be to meet women of the right age, in the right circumstances; that you wouldn't mind spending time with.

That's why I use a foot-pump and a tape recorder when I need female company...

DigiDiz wrote:

MIMX wrote:

...You'd be better off with a blow up friend Digi.

can you interact with them in conversational way?

MIMX wrote:

EdelBrock wrote: People trying to find each other on the net have something to hide and/or are damaged goods.... get off the 'puter for a few minutes and meet one face to face in the blood and flesh mate.

I'm in total agreement, this is no substitute for interacting with flesh and blood people.

It's too easy to be anything/anyone you want to be on this.

Just you,her and a bottle of Rohypnol

Gazman wrote:

MIMX wrote:

EdelBrock wrote: People trying to find each other on the net have something to hide and/or are damaged goods.... get off the 'puter for a few minutes and meet one face to face in the blood and flesh mate.

I'm in total agreement, this is no substitute for interacting with flesh and blood people.

It's too easy to be anything/anyone you want to be on this.

Just you,her and a bottle of Rohypnol

Don't forget the ball-gag and handcuffs Gaz!

MIMX wrote:

Gazman wrote:

MIMX wrote:

EdelBrock wrote: People trying to find each other on the net have something to hide and/or are damaged goods.... get off the 'puter for a few minutes and meet one face to face in the blood and flesh mate.

I'm in total agreement, this is no substitute for interacting with flesh and blood people.

It's too easy to be anything/anyone you want to be on this.

Just you,her and a bottle of Rohypnol

Don't forget the ball-gag and handcuffs Gaz!

and yer pals,for when ye'v had yer wicked way with her..

Jeffari-al-Texani wrote: Maybe DigiDiz should ask out guys...

ewwww, no way

Snowy! wrote:

DigiDiz wrote:

MIMX wrote:

EdelBrock wrote: People trying to find each other on the net have something to hide and/or are damaged goods.... get off the 'puter for a few minutes and meet one face to face in the blood and flesh mate.

I'm in total agreement, this is no substitute for interacting with flesh and blood people.

It's too easy to be anything/anyone you want to be on this.

i agree, but i got a crap job, that allows for no social interaction with ladies or the absolute minimum, no i am not scared of them or some kinda pervy person, its just the job unfortunately

I wasn't suggesting anything mate, was just shocked at being in total agreement with Edel.

It goes to prove that everyone, including you MIMX, can think rationally from time to time

I think she might have been coming from the viewpoint of "he's buying me stuff just to pressure me into something." Which then leads her to feel "bought" as well. And very few women like to feel like that.

Look at it this way; if she'd accepted you buying her something after only so many conversations (either online or in real life)...well, I ain't saying she's a gold-digger, but

Whatever else, don't use this as an excuse to retreat to some underground bunker where you can generalize all relationships as falling into that archtype. Bad experiences with the wrong person can lead you to dismiss the possibility of good times with the right person (or persons).

Taboo # 7 wrote: I think she might have been coming from the viewpoint of "he's buying me stuff just to pressure me into something." Which then leads her to feel "bought" as well. And very few women like to feel like that.

Look at it this way; if she'd accepted you buying her something after only so many conversations (either online or in real life)...well, I ain't saying she's a gold-digger, but

Whatever else, don't use this as an excuse to retreat to some underground bunker where you can generalize all relationships as falling into that archtype. Bad experiences with the wrong person can lead you to dismiss the possibility of good times with the right person (or persons).

but does she know me? i know other men do that, but i just wanted to be friends or mates