Originally posted by Tristan
> Originally posted by James Stephen Barnes> The Garden State. I've seen a couple of killjoys at NOOL slag off NJ in the past, but when we went out there last summer for 6 weeks, the part we stayed in (Sussex County, for the most part) was beautiful, a helluva lot nicer than anywhere I've been to in the United Kingdom.
Just stay in the 'burbs and away from the part of new York that spills over to New Jersey. When you get the money, then move to San Diego, which is the nicest place on earth. Oh yeah, stay away from LA unless you are rich
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There isn't any point in us moving to San Diego. We're going to NJ to be closer to my wife's family, so as none of them live in Diego, there's not much point living there, though I don't doubt what you say about it being very nice. Actually, there's a chance we'll eventually move down to Georgia, but only 'cos the missus' parents want to get a 5-bedroom house down there & we're going with `em...
I know what you mean about certain parts of NJ tho', my better-half grew up in Newark in a real dodgy area, & didn't get out to the suburbs until her mother remarried (they now reside in Ogdensburg, which is gorgeous & very quiet). She told me she got bullied at school for being one of only two white kids in the whole school, which to an Englishman like me growing up in a predominately white neighbourhood, is rather bizarre, but it's like a different world, as the cliche goes...
Looking forward to moving there though, we go on November 10th. I got the tickets off cheapestflights.co.uk, & it's the first time I've paid for tickets online, so as is my natural mindset, I'm dead paranoid that there'll be a spanner thrown in the works, especially as they don't mail out our tix until about a week before we fly. Plus, as I didn't get insurance with them, I had to write to them with insurance details from a different broker, so I'm on tenterhooks waiting for them to call me & let me know that they received the info OK & everything can proceed to a happy, stress-free trip in under 4 months time.
It's no good for me health all this stress, y'know! Plus I have to sort out all my bills, hand in my months notice to our landlord etc, before we depart, so I'm gonna be a nervous wreck between now & November. Well, I am one now if truth be told, but it'll only get worse as time goes on!... :\ohwell: