Biznotic Love Trapezoid wrote:
here's a rule of thumb to go by.
if you're under 25 and listening to a hard rock/metal/punk band, then moshing is acceptable
if you're over 30, fat as a pig and listening to a POP BAND WITH A DARK PAST, then moshing doesn't make sense. Seriously, have you considered the irony of moshing to Bizarre Love Triangle?
You are old, the band are basically miming to a preprogrammed set of mostly borderline gay dance anthems (despite you're claims to the contrary) and the other 20K in the audience don't find it necessary to push, shove and generally act like twats to enjoy the show. If you want moshing you should go see a band with actual energy playing agressive music. Moshing to New Order is absolutely ridiuculous. They are basically the Pet Shop Boys with guitars and worse lyrics.
How funny 
By the way, moshing is called POGO!
I may have made a mistake in Oakland. Usually I love to dance like a bastard at concerts but this time I dead tired, almost as never in my life. But the music was driving... Anyway it was my first NO gig and to say the truth I wanted to HEAR and to LISTEN to New Order. So I was torn between trying to dance and trying to see and listen. The combination of this enduring resulted in languid dancing and not being close to the stage.
I understand people who mosh at NO concerts - most of them have seen New Order many times, they don't need to "listen to", or to "watch" the band, since they've seen them so many times and now they have fun, but to me it was my first experience and I really wanted to see the concert as it is, to see the people whose music I've been listening so much for many years.