Have you ever thought about imitating/ following/ plaguerizing Ian's suicide... maybe have been a little bit inspired at some time in their life...?

c/mon, be honest, i know it is a uncomfortable question, and imitating Ian's suicide could be thought as unrespectful to Ian, and maybe downright tacky or immature... maybe for some of you your life is so valuable and wonderful and all that b.s. but many people fantasize about suicide in their life, at least pretend at some point.

i know somebody will argue otherwise, but i can't see where the "courage" is in living a valueless life to the end, why is that brave?

those who have already killed themselves in homage/ imitation to Ian cannot of course comment on this...

I believe we've had enough suicide threads for now. If anybody is thinking about it, don't do it. I can not think of any worse reason for a human life to end, then trying to imitate some celebrity's death. Talk to your friends, talk to your family. Professional help is availiable for those who need it. See the other thread.

Fooks sake.not another thread.If you're looking to be remembered for going out that way forget it.in a few weeks everyone will have forgotten bout you.

Ronald Kirsch wrote: I believe we've had enough suicide threads for now. If anybody is thinking about it, don't do it. I can not think of any worse reason for a human life to end, then trying to imitate some celebrity's death. Talk to your friends, talk to your family. Professional help is availiable for those who need it. See the other thread.

For one thing, when he gets to the other side Ian Curtis will kick his fucking cunt in day in and day out for all eternity.

78681 wrote: Killing one's self in homage to Ian...

now that is just fucking NUTS!!!

At the same time tho....there's a certain darwinian beauty to it.

Have I thought about it? In the most warped, comedic way possible - but I can't bear to watch Stroszek again (because I find it a suck movie).

One of my friends bought it, and I watched it in that hazy "Ah, jeez, this is a tainted film" way because I'd just read Touching... the week after it'd come out (the first time).

Ironically, this was also the same friend who (knowing absolutely nothing about Ian Curtis and Joy Division) a year later topped himself in his garage, and I was the lottery winner for cutting him down. His own mother couldn't even come into the room again after calling me up in hysterics.

He could have at least waited a week because he owed me 20$ on a bet we had about junior prom.

miserable git, Seriously tho.....don't fancy having to do that at all.....maybe you should mail our celebrity suicide fan and explain your day to him in great detail?

Oh and FWIW, all that stuff...the books, or watching that movie for the sake of it or ANY of that sort of personal stuff about any of them not just Ian, holds, if not no interest then certainly no fixation. I could, if it existed, read a 100 pages on how Gillian operated the voyetri on TPK, but would bore very quickly of details of Ian's personaly life. It seems a little....mmmmm oh I dunno....culty

Ian left us all we need to remember him.

I lost a friend to suicide. He left many notes his last week quoting Joy Division. Totally fuking selfish act. But God did not give his brains the chemicals neccessary for a balanced happy life and doctors merely prescribed him antidepression pills. Hung himself with a novelty noose another friend gave him. Jesus Christ Jeff E why did you give Russ that noose? So Jeff is fucked up with guilt. The funeral was on a very cold day. They combed his hair in a manner he never wore it in. There was a preacher that told outrageous lies about Russ to comfort his family. Fucked up. Totally fucked up.

I bet Ian's daughter wished she had known her father.

several of my friends ( and now all you guys) have been instructed that in the event of some pious bollox coming out with all that spit at my funeral, they are to stand up and shout "that's bollox...the man was a total donkeyfucker of a cunt! and you're all wankers and he hates you"

Steve Campbell wrote: the man was a total donkeyfucker ...."

I know what to get you for next Christmas, then.

In my moments of depression, yeah, it has crossed my mind. But that's just part of life. All these pills that are advertised on the basis that "depression is just bad!" actually numb you to a very important fact of life. Which is, sometimes shit happens.

It's what you do about it that determines whether you slip the noose on or go out and have a nice day and try to get on with it.

I always used to think I'd end up more like John Lennon, really. I mean, when I first got into the Beatles and starting reading about John's life (after a misguided effort to idolize Sir Paul), I noticed all sorts of similarities which (and I'm almost embarassed to admit this) led me to believe that I'd be gunned down in my early forties by a deranged fan of whatever it is I ended up doing. Of course, the band never really took off (not that there ever was one), and I don't go looking to get myself shot by anyone, much less a looney who supposedly likes what I do (which as of this point consists of keeping the shelves in dairy and frozen full). So I guess I grew out of that phase...hmm, who's that deranged-looking customer with the gun...

Anyway, the short answer is "yes, but only because sometimes it gets to you". Obviously I haven't, and I doubt that I will. Unless, of course, I had to choose between that or listening to Clay Aiken's music...trying to end on a joke, people!

if i were going to imitate someone's suicide, i'd probably jump into a volcano like a number of japanese citizens have done in the past. i don't know if it would hurt, but what a unique way to go.

not that i'm planning a vacation to pompeii or kilauea anytime soon.

No, not ever, ever, ever, ever.

AgentWood wrote: if i were going to imitate someone's suicide, i'd probably jump into a volcano like a number of japanese citizens have done in the past. i don't know if it would hurt, but what a unique way to go.

not that i'm planning a vacation to pompeii or kilauea anytime soon.

Why not see the lovely Mount St. Helens? Everybody leaves that off the list of "volcanos" to drop into

Without getting morbid, why imitate someone's suicide? Make it unique! Okay, I'll stop there, because I don't want to give anyone ideas. Plus, I want to be sensitve to those who've lost someone to this before.

Suicide, not volcanos...

Anyway, a volcano would really, really, really hurt

Al Jarvis wrote: No offence, but if I ever wanted to end it, last place I would think of doing it is in the kitchen of a 2-up 2-down up fcuking north.

Though, if I do end up genuinely living like that, I might just have to give it a second thought!!!

THAT'S ENTERTAINMENT. Quality response and FOOD for thought.

twist wrote: But God did not give his brains the chemicals neccessary for a balanced happy life and doctors merely prescribed him antidepression pills.

medication is a treatment but not a solution. if one doesn't go to therapy and attempt to lead a healthy lifestyle, taking meds is most likely for naught.

AgentWood wrote:

twist wrote: But God did not give his brains the chemicals neccessary for a balanced happy life and doctors merely prescribed him antidepression pills.

medication is a treatment but not a solution. if one doesn't go to therapy and attempt to lead a healthy lifestyle, taking meds is most likely for naught.

I agree with the Agent that medication is not a panacea. the medication is there to help one get on with one's life. however, some meds may actually make you much feel worse. if they do it imperative that the patient is in constant communication with their doctor, until the right one is found.

Dumb.

sad

Bastard.

No.

Aww I'm disappointed now.I came into this thread thinking if it was whether I ever thought of shagging a Belgian bunny boiler.

Al Jarvis wrote:

monty wrote: Aww I'm disappointed now.I came into this thread thinking if it was whether I ever thought of shagging a Belgian bunny boiler.

Was she a bunny boiler?! Apparently she looked like Siouxsie Sioux? Not sure I'd fancy either of Ian's choices mind: the fat Norvern frump Deborah, or a boring (Belgians are - allegedly - all boring) Goth? Hmmmm.

Blimey - don't pull them punches, Al!!??

[Oh, and for what it's worth, this is arguably the dumbest thread heading ever, appealing as it does only to those masochist-narcissists who lurk around the margins of the forum. You know who you are.]

MR JARVIS that is no way to speak about ladies!!!!!

Many of my best friends are northern lassses and........

......come to think of it, fair point Al.

If anyone needs me I'll be in A+E with long range stilletto wounds.

Mark Owen has

Boatraceface wrote: Mark Owen has

nice one

Phew!