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BUFFALO, New York (AP) -- He was an 18-year-old Marine headed to war.

She was an attractive young woman sending him off with pictures and lingerie.

Or so each one thought.

In reality, they were two middle-aged people carrying on an Internet fantasy based on seemingly harmless lies.

When a truthful 22-year-old was drawn in, authorities say, their cyber escape turned deadly.

"When you're on the Internet talking, you haven't got a clue who that is on the other end," Erie County Sheriff's Lt. Ron Kenyon said. "You don't have a clue."

Puzzling shooting death

When Brian Barrett was shot to death on September 15 outside the factory where he worked to help pay for college, investigators and his family were stumped.

Barrett, 22, was an aspiring industrial arts teacher, an accomplished high school athlete who had coached Little League all summer and helped his father coach soccer. Those who knew the Buffalo State College student described him as quiet and unassuming.

He had clearly been targeted. Barrett was shot three times at close range in the neck and left arm after climbing into his truck about 10 p.m. at the end of a shift at Dynabrade Corp. in Clarence, 20 miles outside of Buffalo. His body was found two days later when a co-worker spotted his pickup in an isolated part of the company parking lot.

"He was just a nice kid, a gentleman," said Starpoint High School Athletic Director Tom Sarkovics, who was Barrett's baseball coach for two years. "I don't think anybody could say a bad thing about him."

Co-worker charged

On November 27, Barrett's 47-year-old co-worker and friend, Thomas Montgomery, was charged with Barrett's murder. The motive, investigators said, was jealousy over Barrett's budding Internet relationship with the same 18-year-old woman Montgomery had been wooing since the previous year.

What neither man knew was that the woman was really a 40-something West Virginia mother using her daughter's identity to attract Internet suitors.

Cyberspace, it appeared, was enough for her, and it was a near certainty she would never have met either man.

"The game would have been over at that point and time for sure," Kenyon said.

When Montgomery began chatting with the woman in 2005, the former Marine portrayed himself as perhaps a previous version of himself -- a young Marine preparing for deployment to Iraq, Assistant District Attorney Ken Case said.

For a time, they communicated strictly through chat rooms and e-mail.

Then the woman began sending gifts to Montgomery's home, Case said. Pictures of the woman's daughter, lingerie and a set of custom-made dog tags arrived at the pale yellow suburban house that Montgomery shared with his wife and two teenage children.

Wife intercepted gift

Montgomery's wife intercepted one of the packages, Case said. She wrote back to the woman at the return address, and included a family portrait to make her point.

"As you can see, Tom's not 18," Case said she wrote. "He's married and he's a father of two. He's 47 and I'm his wife." And, believing she was writing to an 18-year-old: "You've obviously been fooled."

The West Virginia woman -- whom authorities will not identify -- remembered a friend named Brian that Montgomery had mentioned. She recalled enough of his computer screen name to contact Barrett to ask him about what Montgomery's wife had told her.

Soon Barrett was in regular contact with the woman. Despite knowing the truth about Montgomery, the woman remained in contact with him as well, Case said.

The woman made no secret of the fact she was chatting with Barrett, Case said, and Barrett talked about the relationship at work. Montgomery, authorities say, became jealous.

Wife files for divorce

Sheriff's investigators believe Barrett's killer wore camouflage and a ski mask when he approached Barrett in the parking lot with a .30-caliber rifle and fired at close range.

Montgomery is being held without bail after pleading not guilty to second-degree murder. Tall and with thinning hair, glasses and a mustache, he said nothing at a procedural court appearance on January 10.

He is due back in court in June.

His wife, whom authorities have not named, has begun divorce proceedings, Case said. She did not respond to a message left at Montgomery's home in suburban Cheektowaga or answer a reporter's knock there.

Internet crime expert J.A. Hitchcock, author of "Net Crimes & Misdemeanors," said the case illustrates the dangers that lurk on the web.

"I'm hoping that this case will make people think twice about what they do online and what their actions can cause in the long run," she said.

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Hmmmmmmm.......

Marine being deployed to Iraq. Who does that sound like... :skeptic:

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so are Edelbrock and Comrade going to duel over Cozzie?

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If he does challenge me, by the rules of dueling, I choose the weapon.

I choose a spelling bee. :evil4:

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Wait, you mean people online lie about themselves in order to get dates? :scratch:

For shame, Comrade...for shame :nono:

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It was a harmless little story about a glove I wished to return to her... :uhoh:

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Comrade Shampanyov wrote: It was a harmless little story about a glove I wished to return to her... :uhoh:

When you started funneling shampanyov down her throat, you crossed the line :nonono:

Thank goodness she saw through your facade in time and escaped with her dignity intact :nod:

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Cozzie did not drink shampanya. :nono:

She threw it in my face. :uhoh:

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Comrade Shampanyov wrote: Cozzie did not drink shampanya. :nono:

She threw it in my face. :uhoh:

Commie, forget that Christopher Walken persona in the SNL "Continental Sketch." I couldn't have champagne, anyway.

And you have another Marine to worry about, and it's not EdelBrock. Hint----->:angry:

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The colonel on the Marine base? :confused2:

The one who's a bit miffed about his tanks getting broken and troops getting lost, er, and fights breaking out during general inspection, like? :uhoh:

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Tabbsy and I guaranteed him that not a single armoured division would get done over, for fifteen bob a week.

And did he take us up on that offer? :shades:

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Now that I think about it, posting this story is just so damn wrong. Why, Spotnick, why? :dotdotdot:

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she'll have fun till your daddy takes that T-bird away."

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Comrade Shampanyov wrote: Tabbsy and I guaranteed him that not a single armoured division would get done over, for fifteen bob a week.

And did he take us up on that offer? :shades:

"You've got a pretty nice base here, Colonel...be a shame if something were to...'happen' to it, know what I mean?" :shades: :hat:

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:evil4:

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It wouldn't be good for business, would it Colonel? :\pimp3:

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So if Comrade IS lying, then how is he REALLY????? 84?????

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Comrade Shampanyov wrote: If he does challenge me, by the rules of dueling, I choose the weapon.

I choose a spelling bee. :evil4:

Not nice, hitting my weak point.......

.........how about the one with the most hair?:evil4:

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Why is it that if you're a 'US Marine' you're seen as tough and hard? I've met a few,and (in the style of harold shand),i've shit em'. :wink:

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Steve One wrote: Why is it that if you're a 'US Marine' you're seen as tough and hard? I've met a few,and (in the style of harold shand),i've shit em'. :wink:

Would this be because they spent all their time beating the shit out of their mates instead of you?

Chap I know who served in Gulf part-1, CLAIMS he received the following briefing....

"if you come under what you believe is friendly fire, do not respond. Unless forces are American, in which case treat as hostile, it's your only chance, cops they don't listen, or look, or understand"

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I can't find it in myself to blame the internet for this. Morons will find one their own kind sooner or later, and the consequences will always be sad. At least they didn't breed, that would be calamatous.

As for Spotty's story, that's jsut tragic.

(see what I did there?)

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bizarre love triangle, eh?

oh fuck, now I've gone and made this on topic...

I'll be in the corner...

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BIGINOIL wrote:

As for Spotty's story, that's jsut tragic.

:abovelol:

Oops

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I met my love on the net, after 7 years we are still livin' together:baby:

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[magenta]cozmonite61[/magenta] wrote: Now that I think about it, posting this story is just so damn wrong. Why, Spotnick, why? :dotdotdot:

Because I actually met my wife on the net I guess :lol:

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Spotnick wrote:

...it was a near certainty she would never have met either man.

"I'm hoping that this case will make people think twice about what they do online and what their actions can cause in the long run," she said.

You and me both, sister :laugh:

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BIGINOIL wrote: ...that would be calamatous...

(see what I did there?)

Misspelled calamitous?

Do I win £40?

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[magenta]cozmonite61[/magenta] wrote: Now that I think about it, posting this story is just so damn wrong. Why, Spotnick, why? :dotdotdot:

:laugh: :laugh:

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[magenta]cozmonite61[/magenta] wrote: Now that I think about it, posting this story is just so damn wrong. Why, Spotnick, why? :dotdotdot:

Err, why not post it is what I'd like to know. It's a general story that would be of interest, or as word of warning, to people everywhere.

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Comrade Shampanyov wrote:

BIGINOIL wrote: ...that would be calamatous...

(see what I did there?)

Misspelled calamitous?

Do I win £40?

Oh no no :nono: I think it's cause he said Spotnick's story sucked or something Biggy was being a cheeky monkey cause I don't know if he's referring to the story in the first post of this thread or Spotnick's real life story :ignore:

Do I win £40? :(

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