Psycho emailers

Someone I’ve known since I was 14 has become obsessed with me and it’s not even funny. I keep receiving those pathetic ‘where are you? why don’t you answer me?’ emails on a daily basis and I can’t help but freak out each fucking time!!

People tell me I shall ignore them by simply not replying cause I’m 2,000 miles away FFS and so I’ve tried my best, honest I have, but to no avail.

Even the members of my family often get distracted by phone calls from the said person always asking the same question over and over again whether I’m fine or hmm maybe not as if the person would prefer the latter as an answer for some unexplainable reason.

The distance has made me realize who my true friends are and although the person has not done anything really bad to me (yet!) except that I’m occasionally fuming and pissed, I must admit that I just don’t have the guts to say piss off. Not even via email.

So how do YOU solve a problem like Maria?

:(

Add them to the spam filter, so you never get the mail.....

I'll have a word with one of our new Serbian mates.

All we need is a name, you won't hear from her again.

get his address and get Johnny to steam in.

upper cuts. low blows. and a clip around the ears.

that'll sort it.

Edit:: errrr...not if its a girl though.

BIGINOIL wrote: I'll have a word with one of our new Serbian mates.

All we need is a name, you won't hear from her again.

DON'T!! I'm begging you and I'm not joking

ps - What made you think it's her? I never revealed. :)

If she's blonde and got big tits, then I'd just leave it. everything will be ok.

Politely explain that you are now living in another country and do not have the time or the inclination to use a computer ().

Don't ask that person any questions at all and just say you hope they have a nice life.

If that doesn't get the message across, give me your email details and I'll send the message for you!

Missy Jem wrote: Politely explain that you are now living in another country and do not have the time or the inclination to use a computer ().

Don't ask that person any questions at all and just say you hope they have a nice life.

If that doesn't get the message across, give me your email details and I'll send the message for you!

Cryin' shame that you can't wrap an email round a brick aint it :D

Missy Jem wrote: Politely explain that you are now living in another country and do not have the time or the inclination to use a computer ().

Don't ask that person any questions at all and just say you hope they have a nice life.

If that doesn't get the message across, give me your email details and I'll send the message for you!

As a matter of fact, I just did. I said I was tired of the person acting possessive politely explaining that if the person doesn't spend its free time in front of its pc at home, then why the fuck should I?

That's disrespect for my time. Full stop.

No replies yet. Phew! :)

HAS THIS MAN BEEN E-HARRASING YOU!??!?!

erm.... nope

Who said they're still 2000 miles away? They could be sitting at the top of your road. Watching, waiting, for you to justify your love ooh ooh...

NObabe wrote:

Missy Jem wrote: Politely explain that you are now living in another country and do not have the time or the inclination to use a computer ().

Don't ask that person any questions at all and just say you hope they have a nice life.

If that doesn't get the message across, give me your email details and I'll send the message for you!

As a matter of fact, I just did. I said I was tired of the person acting possessive politely explaining that if the person doesn't spend its free time in front of its pc at home, then why the fuck should I?

That's disrespect for my time. Full stop.

No replies yet. Phew! :)

Every time you reply though, you perpetuate the contact, which to their twisted mind means that you are encouraging it. I had something very similar for several years from someone who actively stalked me until I got married, and I made things worse by telling them to fuck off - ignoring them would have been a much better option in retrospect.

back in the days when Rocket Mick used to wear a curly blonde wig hey.

oldmonkey wrote:

Every time you reply though, you perpetuate the contact, which to their twisted mind means that you are encouraging it. I had something very similar for several years from someone who actively stalked me until I got married, and I made things worse by telling them to fuck off - ignoring them would have been a much better option in retrospect.

Very true. I think I made my point very clearly in today's email so it's back to plan B now - might just start ignoring it with a passion

Ignore, filter as spam, and delete if an email from said person actually gets into your inbox folder. Perhaps you could tell your relatives to inform the psycho that your phone number is unlisted and shall remain so for a VERY long time, if the psycho calls again.

Replying to the psycho emails will only continue the madness. Good luck!

JUST SAY NO! I get these type of e-mails ALL the time from the JOBCENTRE. LEAVE ME ALONE!

It's a woman is it Maya? That makes you a fellow Gay Icon.

Boatraceface wrote: It's a woman is it Maya? That makes you a fellow Gay Icon.

We all KNOW it is a deported LIAM!

Another alternative: put the stalker's email address onto some spam mailing lists so that the stalker gets chain mails and further spam in exponential numbers!

Not that I've ever done that before....

Let's all email stalk Maya and give her a nervous breakdown,for a dafty. Ok blew that cover already.

Let's stalk Johnny

Well the trouble is, it's not really a stalker, it's supposed to be an old friend of mine :\ohwell:

NObabe wrote: Well the trouble is, it's not really a stalker, it's supposed to be an old friend of mine :\ohwell:

We have a term for people like you. It's called 'sack the lads'

Happens when SOME people get wed

Maya,You know this person obviously.so you should be the best judge of their character. If they are a fuckin tosser,fuck them off If not,don't lose yer mates,simple.

NObabe wrote: Well the trouble is, it's not really a stalker, it's supposed to be an old friend of mine :\ohwell:

well either block the person or have the emails come through in you junk mail folder.

NOOLigan wrote:

NObabe wrote: Well the trouble is, it's not really a stalker, it's supposed to be an old friend of mine :\ohwell:

well either block the person or have the emails come through in you junk mail folder.

We are beyond the mechanics now Ronald. we are now into human value and oddbods

Boatraceface wrote: Maya,You know this person obviously.so you should be the best judge of their character. If they are a fuckin tosser,fuck them off If not,don't lose yer mates,simple.

Sounds like Maya may be conflicted. She wants some space (ie no more daft emails), but she doesn't want to hurt this person's feelings... am I right?

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind..

Shed Peel wrote:

Boatraceface wrote: Maya,You know this person obviously.so you should be the best judge of their character. If they are a fuckin tosser,fuck them off If not,don't lose yer mates,simple.

Sounds like Maya may be conflicted. She wants some space (ie no more daft emails), but she doesn't want to hurt this person's feelings... am I right?

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind..

Fuck knows.Pardon my french. Do you actually look like that Emma Peel bird Emma?

Shed Peel wrote:

Sounds like Maya may be conflicted. She wants some space (ie no more daft emails), but she doesn't hurt this person's feelings... am I right?

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind..

Precisely.

re: what Boaty said... It's definitely someone I know very well but I also expect that someone to know me too, to know what I like and what I don't like (we're talking friendship here, right?) and I'm certainly not fond of that kind of behaviour.