Its like the ebb and flow of the tides, the music of NO & JD will always be special to me, but naturally you pick up other things along the way, some good, others not so, (whether thats other music, interests - whatever) and this inevitably cuts into your 'listening' time. Was a compulsive, hungry fan in the early/mid 80's, as you do when you are an adolescent. As their music took a turn in the late 80's and early 90's, I sort of lost interest (assisted no doubt by new family etc) and other 'distractions', just growing up I suppose.
I don't think it is ever as black & white as saying once I get to xx age I will put all my stuff away, their music will always be there in a special place, but that does not mean you can't appreciate other good music (of which, by the way, there is plenty out there for those who can be bothered to seek it out).
As with any music you grow up with, it leaves an indelible mark on you - I prefer to remember NO as I saw them live and recall the anticipation of buying new releases by reading in the NME or hearing something on the radio - the build up to releases thru the internet these days removes that element.
I also think that even though they probably still cut it live (haven't seen them since '87), why the fook does Barney now use an autocue
....karaoke cabaret nowadays...
s'pose that makes me less of a 'fan' then...