Re: uploading more than you downloaded. That's a good thing, it'll save you seeding so long when you're done.
I know some of you are wide eyed innocents on this, so I've disabled rant mode for now :) Torrenting only works (in general, but particularly in NOOLs case, where it's being used as a sustitute for locally hosting 100's of downloads of a huge file) if you upload at least what you download, and if everyone adds even 1-2% more than that, tis sweet download heaven.
The E-donkey leeching bastard approach will get you nowhere. Mind you, for NO gigs, I'm probably the worst fooker on this thread, I always find them when there's plenty of seeds and no other downloaders for weeks. my ratio on dimeadozen's hovering about .6, which is most poor.
Still, I doubt anyone here would leech, just thought I should mention that upping more than downing is normal...remember you may only have 1/3 of the file, but 8 people may want that 1/3.
Word to the wise...do not saturate your outbound connection, it will slow down your downloads like crazy, and destabilize the uploads. Best thing to do is adjust the outbound limiter in azureus until the stats graph for upload is perfectly flat....the exact speed needed varies from day to day depending on how many torrents are running and what they're doing.