I was at Clapham Common last year. Ryder was never much of a dancer, but he literally didn't move at all for the whole gig. His opening line 'I'm shitting meself here' was quite a contrast to the 'Hello Texas' swagger of old. They did "Stinkin Thinkin" though, which was quite sweet.
The lasting impression I have from the day was the half-overheard conversations of the other punters. "I'm in marketing..." "We've made a long weekend of it - saw Les Mis last night..." and my absolute favourite "Going to the after party?" "Can't, the baby-sitter's waiting." Even the baggiest baggies had to grow up one day!
The lowpoint was Wilson bringing his new 'act' on right when the Mondays were due. Quite a few 'personalised' cans of Red Stripe were thrown at them!