New Order were a supposedly "hip" and "credible" band from the moment they started taking their first shaky steps post-Ian, so didn't have any embarrassing legacy to taint their career (well, shall we just forget some of the Republic-era videos for being a tad on the Duran Duran / Sting side then shall we?), whilst Depeche Mode started off like a futurist version of the Monkees or summat. Really awful. But even when Alan Wilder joined them after Vince Clarke left to form Yazoo, they were still making dodgy singles - the lyrics on Everything Counts were truly awful. And....People Are People! Ha ha ha ha ha haaaa - that, along with The War Song by Culture Club, must have really got the masses undertaking revolutionary street protests in their millions!
I'd say Depeche Mode only started getting better from late 1986 onwards, when their music became darker and more industrial sounding, but then this was only cos they took influences from German acts like Einsturzende Neubauten and US composers like Philip Glass (wasn't there a blatant Koyannisqatsi rip off on Black Celebration sung by Martin Gore?). They got bigger and bigger from this point and went ballistic in the US by the time of the Violator album, which was their best record anyway. After that the Rock God thing went to the singer's head and he was memorably mocked at by a music paper for looking like "Chris Cornell of Soundgarden crossed with Mr Bean" - which I thought was hilarious and the analogy has never left my head to this day.
They were probably as big as U2 by this point anyway, so the band decided to go absolutely excessive by caning as much shit as their huge world tour rider could afford them. All four band members were drug-fucked off their faces to some degree but Dave Gahan took it to the limit - his Jesus Christ crucifixion posing on stage and Michael Hutchence-lite mannerisms meant there was only one way forward - hedonistic self-destruction. And the silly sod couldn't even do that properly!!
Remember his immortal quote when he heard that Kurt Cobain had topped himself ?
"I was really pissed off cos I wanted to go that way myself. I remember thinking that would have been me!! I was fully set on being a rock'n'roll martyr in my own eyes! That was how screwed up I was at the time...."
Wilder got pissed off with the rest of the band's crazy excesses eventually and decided to carry on with his solo stuff didn't he? I have to admit that without him their sound really lacks a lot of the bite that they had during their peak period 1987 - 1993. He was their one true virtuoso musician and "sound sculptor" - as readily admitted by the rest of the band he left behind.
The fact they're still going after all this shows that there must be some sort of survival instinct raging within them though.....so they're no different from New Order in that one respect.