I must be a good guy.
I found a way to keep the media files online!
Get down on your knees and pray :D
To be serious now, it's a new thing I'm trying.. I created a complete seperate website for the media files and the "rest", which means all the website. The media file, which is http://media.neworderonline.com (don't go there, it will redirect you anyway) has a limitation of 10 connections and 64 kbps only, so it might be difficult to actually download stuff from the site, but it's still possible.
I'll change those numbers after I'll know what the results will be. The normal site is now 100% without multimedia files, so it should go a lot faster if I see the numbers.. maybe not the forum because it's the database requests that slows it.
So this mean, I will bring back the mp3s and everything if everything goes as expected, if it's still too heavy, i'll just discrease the bandwidth usage again.
It will take 1 or 2 days before your ISP has the updated DNS so you can access the files.
Hope this will do it! Let me know if you see errors..