(The first paragraph probably should to in the technical chat forum, but here goes)
Would be nice if there was option of ignoring postings from anybody somebody doesn't want to read, assuming that doesn't exist already. This is something Usenet clients have had for ages, but apparently isn't common with webboards yet.
As for this particular situation, I've seen much, much worse, but let's not make the opposite mistake of assuming everybody will be able to make up and it will be sweetness and light hereafter. I also don't agree that this is a case of "lost in translation"...that's too easy of a dodge. Posting a private message without the consent of the sender is generally frowned upon. While I suppose it doesn't matter who the sender was, it's generally a good idea not to get on the wrong side of your site admin, even if you meant that as a parting shot and you don't care anymore, you've lost the will to want more...oh no, I'm channelling a Joy Div lyric.
I hope however this is resolved, that it be done "behind closed doors". Of course, I've taken too much of your time with my own pontification, I think I'll go listen to the CDs Julio kindly made me instead...
-Sam