Originally posted by Mario Herlaar
Funny, i always find it very nice to be in England. It has much more to offer to me music wise plus i like your beer and Indian take away very much.I believe you when you say you are not only here for the drugs... there is only one kind of tourist that does that : drugtourists,hahaha.Wish i could join(t) you right now , but i am at work. In fact , there are so many interesting topics in the Forum now that i don't find the time to work at all.Wonder what my boss will say...fuck him anyway.While you are still here you should also try some of the Bockbeer. It is available in most pubs this time of year and truly a nice treat.
Yes, that's the impression most people from Europe get of England, they tend to find it quite ....I dunno...quaint and traditional is some ways, but lurking underneath (perhaps most countries may be similar?) the surface is always the stark reality of life here in Britain. Forget unemployment, the REAL problems are: crime, lack of respect from the young or even adults, vandalism of almost everything, bad infrastructure: the appalling and extremely expensive - and disintegrating - public transport network, the appalling - and disintegrating - road network, the clueless government, the desecration of public and health services, poor education, poor social fabric, massive inequality between rich and poverty, poor living standards, expensive cost of life, the ignorance of most Britons in failing to get off their fat bloated asses to learn a foreign language (see, I'm trying to learn Dutch by teaching myself, of course it's going to be difficult, but I am dedicated enough in at least giving it a try...), I mean, I could go on.... Next year, Manchester hosts the 2002 Commonwealth Games. Believe me Mario, the shit will hit the fan when all our international visitors see what a shambles our trains and buses are: I can't wait for this ultimate episode of Shame to befall our country. It may be the final kick up the backside Britain needs to get its act together once and for all...
Now, on the otherhand, If I left England to live in Holland, of course there will be things I will miss dreadfully: my family, my friends, the good old Fish and Chip shop, the music (despite all the critcism we level at it, the UK does still have a good overall musical culture - you're right in saying so Mario - ), some television is good also - but there is also a lot of crap to deal with too. I will also miss the hills and the country side (the Yorkshire/Derbyshire Dales, The Lake District, etc..) The goold old traditional English pub, the villages, the cliffs, the seashores, you know - there IS alot I will miss.
That's why the dilemma I have about leaving is such a great one. But if it came down to social structure and the fabric of society, coupled with a good transport and commercial infrastructure, I would definitely now choose Netherlands over England anytime. :)
[Mind you, I think all those Brits who just come to Amsterdam for the drugs, sex and redlightdistrict are pretty sad and they should get an education because they are EXACTLY the kind of English stereotype I am so ashamed of being associated with: sometimes it gets so bad I'm afraid to speak in my usual British accent for fear of ridicule from the Dutch, and -this will sound unbelievable - I tend to disguise that by speaking English with a heavy Scandinavian/ Norwegian/Icelandic /Swedish accent !! (
)] So you see, I AM a very considerate and self-aware person when I want to be, which I hope is most of the time...!