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Sadly, I have found that no one around me seems to give a crap. Yeah, they may think some of the songs are cool or the band themselves are really cool, but they just don't the music. I seem to be surrounded by folk rock fans or total anti-electronic music types. It fucking sucks!!! :banghead:

BUT, I think I may be on the verge of converting a friend of mine into some of their stuff. Not so much for the technoey stuff :nonono: , but "Sirens" and a lot of the rockier stuff.

We shall see!!! I will prevail!! :evil4:

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Most of my friends don't even remember New Order or whod they are. They may remember Blue Monday or Bizarre Love Triangle but that's about it. However I have got my daughter on to them and she really loves their music.

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All my family are very familiar with almost the entire back catalogue. My 78 year old mother's favourite NO tune is Subculture (don't think she's translated the Manc accent for the words!). My brother's seen the band several times, as have my wife and brother-in-law.

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My brother first got me into them as he owned a few of the albums; Substance 1987, Technique, Republic and the debut Electronic album. To say I've expanded on the collection a fair bit since then is probably an understatement :evil4: He's also seen them live twice: Japan 2001 and Hyde Park 2005; he really enjoyed both gigs.

My oldest brother doesn't mind them but has no great interest, he's into his Bob Dylan and similar acoustic-ey singer/songwriters. Not my cup of tea as 75% of them all sound the same to me I.e. dull as fcuk.

My parents both don't mind New Order, they liked Krafty when it was played on Radio 2 last year (punk rock eh?!) and my dad wanted me to put WFTSC (the song) onto his mini-MP3 player at the time.

Probably a bad sign when your parents start dipping into your record collection :uhoh:

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Nope. Not one of my mates like them,hence i've never been to a nool meet up (i aint gonna come alone an expect someone to babysit me!).

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Dad was always a passing fan. He had Substance, Republic and Electronic's GTM on cassette. He also bought WFTSC and Get Ready (he prefers Get Ready far more) before i did, and he went to the Peter Saville Show (he's a designer) so I've swiped his albums and also the Peter Saville Show Soundtrack :evil4:

My older brother is also a fan, saw them at Glastonbury whenever they last played there (2005?). He's got most the albums up to Technique and a lot of other singles and stuff on his iTunes. He often covers Temptation with his mates and he's got a melodica like Barney.

I do find it quite difficult to get into conversations with them about NO cos i've always seen it as my thing, and i'm not used to talking to anyone about NO (except on here obviously:smoking:)

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Nah, don't know a single New Order fan meself. :shrug:

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My younger brother is a big fan of New Order.We shared a bedroom as kids,so he had little choice...Funny thing was it rubbed off alot on his mates,who are all 29/30 now and love The Order...Mind,my two bestmates who are the same age as myself are big musos in general,love select tracks form New Order.Such as YSF,Temptation,Ceremony.

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It's all Uncly John's fault :nod:

Thanks to him and Lorraine, we've done shitloads. My missus has done 4 gigs and whilst not being the biggest fan, she enjoys the music. Our John has also been to a gig, though he only lasted 3 songs before getting chucked out in Liverpool! Cousins Eddie and Steve have also done a handful of gigs and my mate Malky has also seen em, Baldrick my faithful manservant must be near double figures as well, I got loads more of my mates into them as well. My mam came to see them with us in Glasgow and my dad likes them an all, his favourite is AIIWIW. Between us The Corby Order have done 100 gigs or more.

As I said, it's all Uncly John's fault :nod:

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I'm trying to get my g/f into it, she likes the 87-93 era best, haven't gone there yet w/ GR & WFTSC, but she finds Shellshock and SOTN too "busy" and "noisy", can give her a headache, rightfully so!

Kind of bittersweet, cuz my ex was (and still is) a huge fan, mostly due to my efforts... :cry:

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Nope.

They all thought I'd gone loony when I told them I was going to South America. "You're going to see WHO!?"

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My Mrs saw them at Brixton in 01 and had a lovely time. Once complained that we needed 'more Barney' when I had a CD of instrumentals on in the car. Other than that, she's not really fussed.

My cousin, on the other hand...

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I asked my father if he had ever heard of Joy Division and he said he hadn't heard of them....well, he was in his early 20's in the late 70's...nah, he and my mom have never heard of New Order either....My bf likes New Order, I was playing the singles CD the other day and he was moving along to it...:)

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Yep, i would have to say nearly to the point of almost everyone i know , know and/or have been to New Order gigs.

My parents would be familiar with them from all the posters in myself and my brothers room whilst growing up.

All my friends have seen them live, be it at Hyde Park or in little ole' Adelaide @ the Big Day out, and at a club in Adelaide formerly called Le Rox in the late 80's.

The New Order is all around me.

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My gf likes Electronic slightly better than New Order. Doesn't care much for Joy Division. After living together for a few months now, she's grown thoroughly sick of New Order and asks me constantly if I ever get tired of hearing the same songs over and over. I say usually yes, belt her on the jaw for talking out of turn, and switch out Movement for Low-Life.

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Thankfully, no. Otherwise I'd have to share them. If my sister started taking my New Order CD's, I'd have to cut her. *smile*

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took sister janet to first order gig at ritz in 81,, wifes ,first date with me was to brighton 86,, kids want to go so hopefully they will do pompey,,mum always asks "is love still tearing you apart?" ( she ,s 83.)

mates came with me to j.d in 79 though they stayed in bar ,,,so no they dont like the order.

theres many more chestnuts in the old chestnut tree.

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It was a very good friend of mine that got me back into New Order back in April. She is a very big NO fan and stuff, so she was the one that got me back listening to them.

We end up talking about them and other similar bands from the 80's.

Psy

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My wife really likes Regret and BLT, but beyond that not really interested.

My younger brother is a huge U2 fan. Saw them three times on the last tour - Seattle (where he lives), L.A., and Dublin.

In high school I dated a girl who loved NO, EatB, Violent Femmes, OMD et al. A peach, she was.

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my dear wife attendeth all gigs of the order that i do, otherwise we wouldnt be married. she has LWTUA for her truetone phone. mine's ceremony.

most of my uni friends had similar musical taste, but time and friends move on

oh off topic... the faithful red army still sing LWTUA ok for Giggs, but.. unofficial cover 101?!

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some of my friends like new order, but not in the way i do. i have a few who really dislike the order; one is a pink floyd obsessive.

as for my family: i'm an only child so it's just my parents. my mother likes johnny mattress and my dad likes classical.

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most of my friends can tolerate New Order reasonably well. I encourage this by a steady supply of cds and dvs. My mum said she couldn't stand them, but she's had many years of exposure and would always tell me when she heard BLT on the radio. Her line about Barney always was that he was still practicing his singing.

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AgentWood wrote: some of my friends like new order, but not in the way i do. i have a few who really dislike the order; one is a pink floyd obsessive.

as for my family: i'm an only child so it's just my parents. my mother likes johnny mattress and my dad likes classical.

Ew. LOL

Thats really sad. But to each his own, I guess.

I tend to like music of all kinds of genres. I cant just stick with one genre. My mentality just doesnt work that way. Its like I have musical ADHD. I like a mix of everything. Some people I know have been shocked that I actually like New Order, PSB, etc and am also a fan of other stuff like Coldplay or the Lost Prophets.

So, I never really understood those that stick with just a certain type of music and thats it. LOL. Sounds asinine, but its true.

My parents dont really care for the Order. My mom thinks they're funny guys and likes "Temptation" and "BLT" a lot, but I think thats about it. My dad hates that sort of music and doesnt get it. He's more into 60s and 70s stuff. My friends could care less, but some are getting into some of their other music, like I said. I have a friend from work that is nuts about the Beatles, U2, and The Who. So I lent them some mixes of some various dance music I have. Depeche, NO, Electronic, PSB, Erasure, etc., and they just didn't get it. Which kind of shocked me for they are somewhat a big fan of U2's "Pop" album, which is pretty 'dancey', and sometimes NO can have a Beatlesy playful thing about them, like "Run" for example.

Hell, I'd rather listen to all the bands I mentioned than her bands to be honest. LOL.

I sound like such an ass. :ignore:

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hennasarai wrote: Thankfully, no. Otherwise I'd have to share them. If my sister started taking my New Order CD's, I'd have to cut her. *smile*

LOL!! In a sense its fun, having it all to yourself. But it does get kinda sad when you dont have anyone to share it with other than online. :(

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His Holiness, The Pope wrote: My gf likes Electronic slightly better than New Order. Doesn't care much for Joy Division. After living together for a few months now, she's grown thoroughly sick of New Order and asks me constantly if I ever get tired of hearing the same songs over and over. I say usually yes, belt her on the jaw for talking out of turn, and switch out Movement for Low-Life.

Oh my god. LOL

Yeah, I have noticed more people will be into Electronic (or Monaco) more than NO or JD. I guess NO and JD are just too complicated and on a totally different level, and less mainstream. I call that mob-mentality, or modern day MTV mind conditioning! :p :evil: :yawn:

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the girlfriend likes new order. she listens to aoc alot when i'm not around. she didn't like fine time too much at first, but i played it until she understood...

my brother took years to figure out new order. he was all into aphex twin, autechre-style techno and the jesus and mary chain stuff, but couldn't come around to new order. but then one night, about 3 in the morning, on a school night, he bursts into my room, headphones hanging unattached to anything, screaming "perfect kiss is fucking genius!" i said, "i know, fuck off."

plenty of my friends like new order. pretty much because they have to. in order to be my friend.

my roommate is being a hardcase. he loves temptaion and ceremony, but doesn't like the dancy stuff so much. meh. his loss.

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screaming "perfect kiss is fucking genius!" i said, "i know, fuck off."

:clap:

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I was until I met my wife a nominal fan (loved what I heard on radio, but didn't know much). My wife is a huge fan, and the way I am, I learnt what I could, and now I'm beginning to be a true fan. (I can obsess a little over music...helps that I work in radio).

It's gotten to the stage I'm teaching my wife more about NO. However, she introduced me to JD, Electronic, Monaco etc.

It's a great thing to be married to someone with similar music tastes!! :nod:

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no -THEY ALL dead:hat:

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wife - absolutely not.

3 year old son - surprisingly yes. he's fallen in love w/ PC&L. at first, it was his "#3 song", The Village. now he's moved on to his "#1 song", AOC, and listens to the entire record, all the while clapping and dancing around our bedroom.

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Caoimhe claims that they are only okay...that's why her drunk ass is bopping along to Face Up from Bradford '84...

my older half sister is the one that introduced me to the order...

I've got a couple of friends here that like them...

everybody else is too fucking ignorant to get it!!!

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My best mate's fave band is NO, I've got the wife to warm to them; fine time is her fave, but JD is a bit too much, and I've even got the tiddywinkies ooowweeeooo-ing onto Temptation.

Most people give me a glazed look when I tell them I'm an NO fan though

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Both sons and the girlfriend appreciate them but the wife doesnt.

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Hi there, new member here, first post.....

My husband is a fan as well. We were both JD fans before we were NO fans. Yes, we are old.....

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Not really. The day I brought home Substance, my parents heard it and made a face and said, "What's that? 80's techno?" I tried to get my sister interested in JD since she had seen Donnie Darko and liked LWTUA, but she saw the "Atmosphere" video and made a comment that Ian wasn't that great a singer! :banghead:

I have some online friends who are fans, but I think even they get tired of my fanaticism! I did get my best friend interested in some of their stuff (including JD) though.

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My wife couldn't stand them when I met her 11 years ago. But I've gradually converted her over the years, culminating in seeing them live in October. It's now got to the stage where she'll turn up the volume if she hears NO/JD on the radio. She recently went to see Marie Antoinette and came home all excited cos she heard 'Ceremony' during the film, likewise during the recent episode of Trinny and Susannah.

Our kids (aged 2 and 4) are big fans too - True Faith, Fine Time and Turn are particularly popular. My wide went into labour with the eldest whilst watching 24 Hour Party People at the cinema which probably explains alot.

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Lisa Brooke wrote: Hi there, new member here, first post.....

My husband is a fan as well. We were both JD fans before we were NO fans. Yes, we are old.....

:welcome:

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a very small boy wrote: Both sons and the girlfriend appreciate them but the wife doesnt.

But does the wife appreciate the girlfriend?

:evil4:

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Hi-dee, as we say in Austin.....nice to meetcha!

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The him wrote:

Our kids (aged 2 and 4) are big fans too - True Faith, Fine Time and Turn are particularly popular. My wide went into labour with the eldest whilst watching 24 Hour Party People at the cinema which probably explains alot.

:abovelol: Cracking Freudian slip there mate

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My brother likes 'em quite a bit, my sisters......well, they don't hate 'em as they do Einsturzende Neubauten. :lol: I know a handful of people around me who know and like 'em, though not as much as I do.

Have to accept responsibility for turning my brother into a U2 freak though, after I bought a copy of the 11 O'Clock Tick Tock single, which he heard and went crazy for. :shrug:

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We already had this thread a year or so ago. :angry:

My wife thinks they're all gay and can't tell them from the Pet Shop Boys. My parents didn't really think of them though they also think NO are something like the Pet Shop Boys.

Verdict: poor New Order - in the book of ignorance they found a place somewhere near the Pet Shop Boys. :rofl:

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Lisa Brooke wrote: Hi-dee, as we say in Austin.....nice to meetcha!

Welcome home! :laugh:

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ok I swiped my big sister's tape of "Substance" back in the day...I did not go off the "deep end" with NO until I discovered Joy Division while working at Tower Records back in 2002. So not really

But I do have my baby niece Lauren whom I can influence

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Einsteurzende Neubauten is my husband's fave band. We went to see them in Dallas back in 1991. We were standing up front near the mosh pit and (I'm not making this up) a one-legged drunk guy was moshing, using his crutch to push off on me. I turned around and yelled at him to stop and he punched me in the face, so I grabbed his crutch and went upside his head with it. I got a round of applause, so he must not have been well-liked there. Not one of my finer moments, I'll admit.....

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Nice to find other New Order fans in central Texas!

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In a nutshell, yes, I am surrounded by New Order fans -- some are even more devoted than I.

That reminds me -- my mechanic found one of my New Order CD's and played it while he worked on one of my cars a while ago. I caught him in the act! :nono: :lol:

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My wife enjoys NO and is a fan of music in general which especially helps since part of the house is taken up by my studio. ;) My mom enjoyed listening to some tunes here and there and would often sing along when I'd pop in NO when I still lived at home. I never talk music with my dad because it just frightens and confuses him... especially anything beyond easy listening.

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Mrs Snorri can identify a handful of 'popular' NO tunes, and quite likes the Community 2 CD which has been playing a lot here recently... Plenty of friends are 'casual' fans, I can think of about half a dozen who own at least 1 NO or JD album... But apart from that noone else gives a toss... :nonono:

Snorri xxx

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Mum and Dad? Not on your nelly,they're more into Russell Watson.I'll let 'em off,he's a Salford lad. Me Julie likes some of them,but she's not keen on Barney's singing.But she does come to my "neworderdiscos",to boost the attendance:evil4: Julie's daughter,she's more into Panic At The Disco,but I took her 12 year old brother on a camping trip last Summer and I had "Singles" on on the way up the M6.And he was singing along to STATE OF THE NATION!! :result:

Mates? Erm,don't know.I'll have to ask the Banshee! Oh and I've got a mate who's been on here a while ago,who went by the name of BARON VON NINJAPIG,who's into them.And his wife from Detroit

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Similar tastes in music was a bonding element for my wife and I during our courtship and since then we've done a decent job of brainwashing our twin eleven year-olds. The kids like Regret, YSF, Temptation and most of WFTSC.

Nowadays we make an effort to go see some cool younger bands like Bloc Party, The Shins and Death Cab......but, sadly, it seems like most of the people around us are content to listen to the same classic rock songs over and over and over and over......

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MONTY The Merciless wrote: But she does come to my "neworderdiscos",to boost the attendance:evil4:

There's a NO disco?? I'd been thinking there really ought to be one--Smiths fans get the Moz discos at the Star & Garter, why not NO, since so much of their music is perfect for that kind of thing?

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I have a friend who likes NO. Sadly, my parents don't understand them.

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ondes_martenot wrote:

MONTY The Merciless wrote: But she does come to my "neworderdiscos",to boost the attendance:evil4:

There's a NO disco?? I'd been thinking there really ought to be one--Smiths fans get the Moz discos at the Star & Garter, why not NO, since so much of their music is perfect for that kind of thing?

:nod:

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Minx wrote:

ondes_martenot wrote:

MONTY The Merciless wrote: But she does come to my "neworderdiscos",to boost the attendance:evil4:

There's a NO disco?? I'd been thinking there really ought to be one--Smiths fans get the Moz discos at the Star & Garter, why not NO, since so much of their music is perfect for that kind of thing?

:nod:

Holy crap, how did I not know about this? I just found some information online...is there another one coming up soon? (With my luck, it'll be when I'm out of the country.)

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My friends like some of the dance mixes of the newer songs but they don't really "get" NO. None of my family like them at all.

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i have a j.d postcard in my office ,,its amazing the number of people who can make the conection (to new order)and relate there stories.. ive even met some one who was at the opening nite of the hac(1 of 200),,

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Well apart from Bizarre Love Triangle and Blue Monday my family doesn't really know them...but my two best mates really likes them

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