Frankly, this is just all a bit trite, isn't it? People, take a grip and think first about what you're posting.
Turn up at Tony's funeral 'representing' all the people who post here?
Send a donation but mark it from 'Neworderonline.com'?
Send a list of members names to say how sad we all are?
Talk about jumping the gun. 
And as per my point late last night, I don't see why people just can't do things off their own backs? If you want to send a card, flowers or a donation, or even turn up at the funeral, then do it under your own steam. Don't shout about it. Everyone deals with grief in their own personal way and nobody, but nobody here, is gonna grieve on behalf of me through some 'collective'.
Really, I'm quite saddened by some people's rather facile reaction to all this.